In Art Class-FAIL

[peteytakinitezy]

Location-In my computer design/art class.

This cute HB 9 is on the art side of the class, while I was on the computer side. I got to use the lap top for this forum the entire period. After, reading a couple threads I was pumped to say something to her.

She was sitting alone in the center of the classroom drawing something. I sat in my seat for 10-20min thinking of something to say to her.

Eventually, I needed to go to the restroom bad. So, I walked to her area and looked for a writing utensil but all they had were markers.

Interaction-

Me: Hey (neutral voice), can i borrow your pencil?
She: (the most angelic cute voice ever heard) mmhmm.
Me: (wrote on my bathroom pass, then gave her pencil back) Thanks.
She: (again with the cute voice) mmhmm.

I walked to the front of the room to give something to the teacher before I went to the restroom. Turned around with a slight smile and caught her staring at me. Made eye contact, then walked to the door.

I went to the restroom and decided to write on a toilet paper to give to her (LOL). I wrote, "hey, I thought you were adorable with your humble mmhmms. R U Single? Text me. (My number)

I went back to the classroom, and saw her back at her table with the other students. So, i froze and didn't give her my note.

-I had to get this out of my system, because its been beating me up since Friday. Most likely I'll see her on Monday in class again, any advice?

[RMO]

.... i think ive been brainwashed by the whole mystery method but shouldnt you at least show that your not into her so she will like you? but that note, in my opinion, would have shown you were needy. I could be wrong, it could be some terrible tragedy.
Anyway maybe you should try to establish rapport at lunch or next time you see her in art class. and man be the PUA, its not a skill, its how you think, anything else guys?

[peteytakinitezy]

Oct 11, 2009 12:28:14 GMT -5 RMO said:

.... i think ive been brainwashed by the whole mystery method but shouldnt you at least show that your not into her so she will like you? but that note, in my opinion, would have shown you were needy. I could be wrong, it could be some terrible tragedy.
Anyway maybe you should try to establish rapport at lunch or next time you see her in art class. and man be the PUA, its not a skill, its how you think, anything else guys?

Thanks.

[ken]

You need to learn how to games notes are the trade mark of an AFC.

[Alek]

you got a long ways to go

[RMO]

so my advice after another though or two is that you should go over this forum more, and maybe practice a whole hell of a lot more

[Calli]

Hey man,
I know exactly how you feel, witty things to say don't come to me naturally . But I can tell you that before you try and get her number you should build some rapport and make her interested in you instead of just blundering in when you don't know each other at all. Try to start a conversation outside of class, or when shes not busy, if she is concentrating hard on her painting she probably isn't keen to chat with some guy she doesn't know.

Also, no notes. If you ask her for her number or try to hit on her using a note, you just look like a complete loser, because you are showing her that you are not man enough to speak to her in person.

Make sure you read up, theres lots of good info on this forum!

[$wagg]

Actually fuck that, notes are a great fuckin way to game in class, just make sure there's been rapport built up and all that.

Whenever the teacher's up there teaching/talking/whatever, you can't really game on anyone so, why not use notes? As long as you keep fun (talking about stupid shit, teasing her/the teacher/anyone etc..), it is absolutely fine and is a great way to give a glint of your personality. Think of it has old school texting game, but with a little time constraint since she'll be expecting an answer.

I would suggest you to get the basics of seduction down;open a set, create rapport, then escalate. After you understand what you need to do, add your own style to it. This is why the mystery method is chosen by many when starting out because it gives you a very simple model.

Don't give up bro, it's not has hard and tedious as it sounds, it's really all about making the effort in changing your way of thinking.

[Rusty]

If you wanna use notes, its ok to use notes haha. Just calibrate it properly though, cause a note is an IOI. So write something in there like 'Bored?' with a naughts and crosses thing below it and throw it at her. As you throw the ball of paper at each other, write something down that requires a reply when it's appropriate. So for example the first time the throws it back, write down 'Ready to loose?' and she'll probably put down 'Your dead' or something. That way you can have a nice DHV conversation without IOI-ing too much. Good luck man and ignore the negativity. In a month you'll be a fucking ninja

[ken]

Notes are for pussys who cares ig the teacher is talking

[Calli]

I was meaning no notes to ask for a number/ask out, I should have been more clear with what I meant. I agree with Stevenadrian and Rusty that notes are fine for talking about minor stuff and when you already know each other, but I don't think they are a good idea if you don't know the girl or to ask for her number or ask her out.

[ken]

yeah get to know her first and at least let her pass you the first note

[krabby]

I think notes are fun. Last week, in my chem lecture, I spotted this very cute girl who sat behind me. She looked kinda bored, so was I. I took a piece of paper wrote a pickup line (there is this thing in i phone called i-pickup) and underneath wrote something I can't remember. She wrote something about the teacher and we talked like this till the end of class.

[nikkisixx]

Oct 11, 2009 12:28:14 GMT -5 RMO said:

.... i think ive been brainwashed by the whole mystery method but shouldnt you at least show that your not into her so she will like you? but that note, in my opinion, would have shown you were needy. I could be wrong, it could be some terrible tragedy.
Anyway maybe you should try to establish rapport at lunch or next time you see her in art class. and man be the PUA, its not a skill, its how you think, anything else guys?

If she was staring at him that's an ioi. So he can show interest back. Unless of course it was accidental. Or am I wrong?

but i wouldn't give her the note. C&F cheesy openers in class work wonders =]

[acezero]

I think you're going into adult game in high school. A note?

Why not just stand there a bit or wait till after class to talk to her?

3 minutes of conversation can do much more than a note.