Post by wespeezy on Oct 19, 2009 23:24:22 GMT -5
DO AT YOUR OWN RISK.
Just this year I've been on the verge of dating two different girls, both who were 15.
Were they easy as fuck? Yes.
Did I have to put in much effort?ehh kinda.
Will I ever date a girl two years younger? NO.
Theres a few reasons why relationships like these typical won't work and haven't worked out for me.
1. Their on a different emotional level than you are. (this is mainly for upper classmen dating under class..girls.) Alot of the girls I talk to are still too immature. They joke about wayyy to childish stuff, emotions are fucking INSANE, and the drama is 10x worse than girls that are closer to your age. Drama= fights with parents, her being grounded, less communication. Which bring me to my next point.
2. Most of the girls don't know the basic fundementals of how to have a relationship. Like the easiest one. COMMUNICATION. Neediness is not the issue here(well it kind of always is, its a fine line). It is the fact that when ur IN the relationship, the two of you have, HAVE to communicate. Its the basic ground for social interaction, you don't have it your relationship is screwed. You may think your mad at each other, get into some bull shit fight or something like that, gets awkward, annnnnnd its over. COMMUNICATE.
3. They don't understand older guys needs as well. We wan't to fuck, really thats most of it. I want my dick taken care of as well as my happiness and all that stuff. Alot of the time, their oblivious, unless your with a girl who is experienced this isn't much of an issue.
Alot of what these issue all add upto to is experience. We all learn from trial and error. I mean we all learned(learning) how to be in a relationship as grow older. It just all takes time to learn these things.
Just this year I've been on the verge of dating two different girls, both who were 15.
Were they easy as fuck? Yes.
Did I have to put in much effort?ehh kinda.
Will I ever date a girl two years younger? NO.
Theres a few reasons why relationships like these typical won't work and haven't worked out for me.
1. Their on a different emotional level than you are. (this is mainly for upper classmen dating under class..girls.) Alot of the girls I talk to are still too immature. They joke about wayyy to childish stuff, emotions are fucking INSANE, and the drama is 10x worse than girls that are closer to your age. Drama= fights with parents, her being grounded, less communication. Which bring me to my next point.
2. Most of the girls don't know the basic fundementals of how to have a relationship. Like the easiest one. COMMUNICATION. Neediness is not the issue here(well it kind of always is, its a fine line). It is the fact that when ur IN the relationship, the two of you have, HAVE to communicate. Its the basic ground for social interaction, you don't have it your relationship is screwed. You may think your mad at each other, get into some bull shit fight or something like that, gets awkward, annnnnnd its over. COMMUNICATE.
3. They don't understand older guys needs as well. We wan't to fuck, really thats most of it. I want my dick taken care of as well as my happiness and all that stuff. Alot of the time, their oblivious, unless your with a girl who is experienced this isn't much of an issue.
Alot of what these issue all add upto to is experience. We all learn from trial and error. I mean we all learned(learning) how to be in a relationship as grow older. It just all takes time to learn these things.
