Challenge for the Newbies

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I have a challenge for all the newbies out there that are hungry for a challenge. This challenge will not only expand your social circle, but give you loads of practice and insight on approaching and talking to girls. I'm sure this has been posted somewhere before, but I don't see it here so here we go.

Approach and have at least a 5 minute conversation with at least 1 girl a day.

This can be anywhere. School, mall, grocery store, you name it there will be a cute girl there for you to talk to.

If you don't talk to at least one girl (within your age range, I don't want to see you guys chattin it up with blue haired old ladies) for at least 5 minutes give yourself a punishment for that day. Anything from no desert to no masturbation. Whatever makes you feel compelled to do it.

Now here's a twist if you are a more seasoned puahs out there.

Add on a getting their number too... and actually talk/text them afterwards (well if they're cute anyways).

[fourtwenty]

I'm going to do this as i really need to start doing regular approaches. Even though im a total newbie im going for numbers anyway as i want to get used to closing too.

I'll let you know how it goes.

[slithroat]

Just a little tip to some people out there -- good ice breakers could be a sense of style, normally brought forth through a compliment, should go somewhat like this, if you choose to follow my tip.

"I like your shoes, where did you get them?"

"Oh, I got them at -so and so store-"

"OH! I SHOP THERE ALL THE TIME! But I hate how they have -so and so a thing-"

The conversation normally carries on from there... If they're social. Normally the girl will do more of the talking, transitioning the conversation so you don't need to, however at a certain point (I'd say approximately 5 minutes in) pretend that you just got a text or something and say that you have to go, or make up an excuse.

Try to make sure you don't get too deep into conversation though, I've had to sit there talking to strangers for HOURS on end, on buses, on planes, at concerts, anything. You name it, I've met people and talked to them.

I try to meet at least one new person a day, normally people are open and comfortable with strangers, however my lack of sleep makes me look like a heroine addict thus making me less approachable. Do not be offended if they don't want to talk to you! Well, maybe a few people should be. It varies. If they don't want to talk to you though, you will know.

No more tips from there for the "extra-challenge"

Aaron, I know that you know I'm new, but I've done shit like this before on numerous occasions, I'm a people person in a sense. I know how people think. ;DD

[guido sensation]

nice imma try this out

[Johnny Bravo]

what the fuck. When did this start?

I just made my post in the other section and I was like "Oh...maybe it should have gone in here" and then fucking I see this. Shit... Let me actually read it real quick...


*reading*

Hey, I hope you don't feel like i'm stealing your ideas. Its good, its a newbie mission for sure. Good for pua in general. This is what I did way back in da day. lololol Da day...

But yeah, I never punished myself though. not getting laid was punishment enough.

[Deleted]

haha no probs man.

That's what the main thing for anything you want to get good at. Motivation. It's what separates the truly good from the just adequate.

If you truly want something you need to push yourself to get it.

[gansta344u]

sounds like a good idea...