ginobeats09
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Post by ginobeats09 on Nov 16, 2009 15:56:59 GMT -5
Ok we in Canada have a junior prom called a semi-formal where we go to a banquet hall eat, dance, then theres an after party where we all get wasted. i have no problems with my clothes or physical features, i just need tips on body language, and A LOT, of canned material cuz so far i dont know what to say, its friday, so please anyone HELP!
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Alek
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Post by Alek on Nov 16, 2009 19:34:45 GMT -5
No canned material man, that shits just weird. Just be natural and fun. I know its hard to say "just be natural" But there is SO MUCH to vibe off of, and the energy is there. Let alone, material is extremely weird and just awkward and out of place (do not confuse this for gambits though, like little cocky funny remarks you can use. Those just come naturally to me now tho) See man this is how I game; cocky funny, making your self the prize, being fun, and reading her. Honestly, thats like all you need. But it defiantly takes time to become calibrated with what you say, but once you do it..its easy
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methodjkl11
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Post by methodjkl11 on Nov 17, 2009 2:08:49 GMT -5
what alek said (:
here are some specifics if you're still unsure on how to act:
MOST IMPORTANT is to have fun yourself. allow yourself to have a good time. so... keep yourslef open, talk to EVERYONE and just be social overall. don't limit yourself to people you're comfortable with. reach out and dabble with different groups, friends, and girls. this has a dual effect becuase it also gets chicks chasing you. if you talk ot them a bit, C+F, tease, joke, and then you leave for another group, they will want you that much more. joke with everyone, tease the shit outta hbs, and give wicked ass grins. you want the chicks to think that you know exactly what you're doing, that you're JUSt having fun. in the intial stages, chicks don't want to know that you care. they want to know that you're having fun being yourself. ONLY ONCE you have that status will they wANT you to care about them. as far as canned material, just change your mindset. you don't need canned material to say the right things. however, it's nice to have some backup topics or gambits or routines to help give you a cushion to fall back on. i recommend random challenges with chicks... tell them you're better and have them try to prove you wrong. it's fun, it gets them interested, and shows taht you're confident and fun. just little games like that. or some kino games. in your situation, shit like the Cube doesn't really work.
good luck man
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Alek
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Post by Alek on Nov 17, 2009 2:18:58 GMT -5
Basically. Kino games, and any kind of "fun game" is cool to have. Everyone uses routines, naturals included. But its just in a different form. Its something to talk about, not a robotic scripture.
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Ari Gold
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Post by Ari Gold on Nov 26, 2009 19:55:12 GMT -5
What I think the key is, is to not think so much. Don't think of how much people will care about what you're going to say. Of course, take a second to think about what you're gonna say, so you don't sound like an idiot/complete douche, but, sometimes, being a dick can get you places. Some girls like a confident, cocky, slightly arrogant, slightly egotistical guy.
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Post by Grape on Nov 28, 2009 17:18:08 GMT -5
keep in mind why they throw proms in the first place. it's for you to enjoy yourself with friends.
dont feel forced like you have to do certain things, it doesnt matter what you do and dont you. (i.e. getting drunk, getting fucked up, getting laid)
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