What Have YOU Learned?

[Grape]

Put the most significant things you've learned into simple statements.


The point of life is to be happy.
You will become happier by spreading your happiness unto others.
People can't help who they're attracted to.
Rapport IS the game, especially in high school.
Fashion and image are vital.
Keep on escalating and touching.
Stand up for yourself.
People are the same.
Be honest and straightforward.
Judge yourself before judging others.
Focus on solving your problems, not on what your problems are.
Spend your time living life, not preparing to live it.
Focus on getting, not wanting.

[RMO]

AHA!! good, good, everyone should be good with these principals, but I have a few more which are more general

now these ones are really for games ( not women) but more of dealing with life
in a game
you can only get smarter by playing a smarter opponent

the more sophisticated the gme the more sophisticated the opponent

if the opponent is very good he will place the victim in an environment he can control

the bigger the environment the bigger the control

opponent distracts victim by getting them consumed with thier own consumption

the bigger the trick the older the trick te easier it is to pull
they think it cant be that old, or that big for so many to have fallen for it

eventually when the opponent is either challenged or questioned, the victims investment, and thus his intelligence is questioned

you'll always find a good opponent in the last place you would ever look

always an opponent and always a victim

the more control the victim thinks he has the less he actually has

then my favrite tyler durden rules which do alot of work
“No fear. No distractions. The ability to let that which does not matter truly slide.”
“No fear. No distractions. The ability to let that which does not matter truly slide.”
“I say never be complete, I say stop being perfect, I say let’s evolve, let the chips fall where they may.”
“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.”
“You’re not your job. You’re not how much money you have in the bank. You’re not the car you drive. You’re not the contents of your wallet. You’re not your fucking khakis.”
“People do it everyday, they talk to themselves… they see themselves as they’d like to be, they don’t have the courage you have, to just run with it.”
“Sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a chicken.”
“This is your life, and it’s ending one minute at a time.”

these rules are good forerunners to grapes ideas, which btw are excellent.

[nutrick]

Nov 28, 2009 15:04:40 GMT -5 Grape said:

Put the most significant things you've learned into simple statements.


The point of life is to be happy.
You will become happier by spreading your happiness unto others.
People can't help who they're attracted to.
Rapport IS the game, especially in high school.
Fashion and image are vital.
Keep on escalating and touching.
Stand up for yourself.
People are the same.
Be honest and straightforward.
Judge yourself before judging others.
Focus on solving your problems, not on what your problems are.
Spend your time living life, not preparing to live it.
Focus on getting, not wanting.

[Alek]

Im going to quote neil strauss here, but these are gold:

1. What you look like doesn't matter. But how you present yourself
does.

2. Nobody is judging you. They're too busy worrying about what you
think of them. So instead of seeking her approval, give her yours.
Then take it away. Then give it to her again. This is called
flirting.

3. Women do actually like nice guys. They just don't like weak
guys. So you can still be nice. But you must also be confident--in
yourself, your opinions, and your worthiness and value in the
world. In order for a woman to be with you, she needs to feel safe
with you.

4. It's not enough to just be yourself. You must be your best self.

5. There's a thin but important line between being horny and being
sexual. A horny man hits on a woman before she's attracted to him.
A sexual man waits until she's attracted to him.

6. Just because you're interacting doesn't mean you're attracting.
Learn to recognize the difference between politeness and interest.

7. To win the heart of a woman, you often have to be willing to
risk losing her.

8. When a girl who you went on a date with in the past and who
suddenly disappeared on you calls out of the blue, it generally
means one thing - so call back right away before she finds someone
else to be with that night.

9. Always call a woman the day after sleeping with her and make her
feel good about having let go with you--even if you don't want to
see her again or she doesn't want to see you again. Don't ruin her
for other guys.

10. Don't look to your friends or family for approval as you learn
the game. They may like you just the way you are, but not always
for the right reasons. With some "friends," this is because when
you start looking better, feeling more confident, and succeeding
more than they do, you often end up reminding them of their own
inadequacies and lack of growth.

11. Finally, to quote the wisdom of Canadian hockey player Wayne
Gretzky, "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." So
simply by approaching a woman and saying something, no matter how
badly you may bumble, you've dramatically increased your odds of
being with her.

[blaze]

as far as my learning experience goes i've improved a lot and those quotes helped me a lot.

1. Be in the moment don't thing about what you're going to say , just sit back relax and have a good time.

2. Don't be ALPHA, be DOMINANT.

3.Attraction is not a choice.

4.Sucsess is a terrible teacher.

5. Believing is seeing.

6.If you start to say something to yourself enough times you'll actually start to BELIEVE it !



and there is a book called all PUA routines and it's got about 1000 pages... damn and the intro is pretty nice

The Creed:
I make no excuses for my desires as a man.
I move through this world without apology.
I like to satisfy women.
I don't need any particular woman, I am not needy.
Women are abundant.
I do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive.
Rejection is a good thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid.
I learn something every time. Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace.
I do not dwell in the past.
The past can not be relived, good or bad.
I have a wide range of options in how I choose to react to other people. The
choice is mine.

[$wagg]

Learning is the greatest thing one can do. To walk out of a situation without getting something from it is not only stupid, but also literally the end of any form of evolution...

Ego is the greatest evil. It accomplishes nothing, is detrimental to all (the one being egoist and the one communicating with him), and kills. If you don't believe me, think of a murderer. He is able to murder because his ego causes him to reduce other humans as mere objects.

Also, learn to accept your wrong. It goes with the ego, but I'm talking more in-depth;humility. If someone asks you about something and you don't know, be able to truly reply with that, has bullshitting not only wastes time for everyone, it's also a sign of a weak inner game. You are afraid to lose validation so you lie.

With this I want to get my frustration out for this friend of mine. A complete AFC, in all definition of the acronym. What pisses me off is I point out his needy behavior, I explain the behavior of his target and show him what NOT to do, along with trying to impart him with mindsets and beliefs that will benefit him for the long run, but he's...stubborn?
He says "I get it" or "Oh ok I understand you, I know", but he still continues with his needy behavior. You can all talk to him for 1 minute, and see his very fragile inner game, and try to help him out, but he just doesn't listen.

I'll tell him not to notice her every action, to not make getting this girl that big of a deal, but it seems like he's made it his life goal or something...eh

[ascendancy]

1. When it comes to women, keep high standards.
2. The moment you go below those standards is the moment you dishonor yourself.
3. The moment you pretend you did nothing wrong is the moment you cheat yourself out of the chance to become a better person.
4. Douchebags have a more twisted perception of reality than the rest of the world. It gives their actions an excuse. View the world with clarity and you will be forced to be a good person.
5. Don't expect all of your friends to keep your secrets.
6. Use logic: If a girl leaves her bf for you, then she'll probably leave you for someone else given enough time; you're not that special.
7. One's words mean nothing when one's actions disagree.
8. Knowledge is the cure to 99% of the world's problems.
9. A friend who tries to hide an invaluable truth from you for his/her own purposes, should not be considered a friend.
10. A friend who doesn't call you out when you fuck up is a friend who will abandon you when he's needed the most.
11. Be honest with yourself, be honest with others, and you will find the strength to rise above all of life's treacheries.
12. Never stop learning.