Post by nora on Nov 24, 2009 16:02:29 GMT -5
The Difference between need and want; HOW TO SNAG YO WOMAN
(what I know from personal experiance)
The most attractive way you can approach a girl is with the mentality that you don’t need her but you WANT her. This is attractive because it feels good to be wanted, and what makes her want you back is the aspect of knowing that if she doesn’t comply you’ll eventually move on. Not to say if she doesn’t comply right away, you should give up; it doesn’t work quiet like that.
Basically we all know desperation is extremely unattractive so your goal is to act opposite of that , in a way of contentment, do this and people will be drawn to you.
Example- You walk into a set, let’s say it’s a party. You look around and you see the most beautiful girl in the room. Now so many guys will make one of two mistakes, they either throw themselves at her and give it all they got right away or they sit around trying to conger up the courage.
You gotta show her you want her but you don’t need her. This is what you do;
When you see her make eye contact and smile, but don’t go up to her or try to talk to her. Go around that party with in her sight and make conversation with every single girl except her. Try to set your self in a group of people were you can make it evident there laughing at and having fun with you. She’s going to see this and she’ll want to know what all the ho ha is about.
[keep in mind- one: the goal is not to hit on every girl at the party, that will not be attractive, you want to make the girls at the party laugh and be interested in you subtle friendly flirting is ok, but don’t let Hotty think you’re a scam.
Two-maybe your not the funniest guy, that ok when you go up to people they will project the same energy you give out come off very outgoing and happy smiling and ready to laugh “JENNNA!! DAMN GIRL WERE YOU’VE BEEN-friendly hug- : heyyyy jon sup buddy slapup/hug” and smile a lot they’ll smile back and if your happy to see them they’ll be happy to see you.(same thing goes if your introducing yourself to new people)]
Ok so now you’ve hardy harded with the fellas and you’ve chatted up every cute girl in that room, all the while dogging little smile and glances to Hotty. Now’s the time to make your move, not only is she curious, her self a steam is a little shot cause she was the last person you approached. Approach her causally ask a question start a conversation and make sure you seem really interested in what she’s saying
Now she knows you want her, but you don’t need her, you could go back to any other group of people at that party and be completely content, now she wants you.
This mindset applies not only to people your just meeting but girls you already know, and even in relationships.
For example, I call this move the squeeze and run
Alright the point of this flirting technique is to apply ample amounts of attention and the pull the rug from there feet and take it all away.
Ok so your walking down the hall and you see Sally standing there looking at some flyers with a friend. You kinda like sally and you’re a friend of hers. Now you need to put yourself in a spontaneous loving feel good mood maybe act somewhat groggy like you just woke up and your really happy- you see sally, “Sallllllyyyy heyyy come here you (but you need to go to her) now give her a hug, not too long not to short maybe say something like aaahhh your so cute! Then abruptly end the hug and say a quick bye! Or gotta go! And leave don’t give her time to respond do it so she doesn’t see it coming when you leave
She misses you now, she craves that attention, she got a taste and then it was gone! You wanted her. But you didn’t need her.
Note: happy groggy approach is only one way to execute the squeeze and run. the concept can be used in lots of ways even if its walking up behind her, giving her a quick shoulder rub and then abruptly walking away.
A little bit of this once in awhile goes a long way. It works for me on guys EVERY time. And even thoguh I know when there doing it to me it STILL drive me crazy.
(what I know from personal experiance)
The most attractive way you can approach a girl is with the mentality that you don’t need her but you WANT her. This is attractive because it feels good to be wanted, and what makes her want you back is the aspect of knowing that if she doesn’t comply you’ll eventually move on. Not to say if she doesn’t comply right away, you should give up; it doesn’t work quiet like that.
Basically we all know desperation is extremely unattractive so your goal is to act opposite of that , in a way of contentment, do this and people will be drawn to you.
Example- You walk into a set, let’s say it’s a party. You look around and you see the most beautiful girl in the room. Now so many guys will make one of two mistakes, they either throw themselves at her and give it all they got right away or they sit around trying to conger up the courage.
You gotta show her you want her but you don’t need her. This is what you do;
When you see her make eye contact and smile, but don’t go up to her or try to talk to her. Go around that party with in her sight and make conversation with every single girl except her. Try to set your self in a group of people were you can make it evident there laughing at and having fun with you. She’s going to see this and she’ll want to know what all the ho ha is about.
[keep in mind- one: the goal is not to hit on every girl at the party, that will not be attractive, you want to make the girls at the party laugh and be interested in you subtle friendly flirting is ok, but don’t let Hotty think you’re a scam.
Two-maybe your not the funniest guy, that ok when you go up to people they will project the same energy you give out come off very outgoing and happy smiling and ready to laugh “JENNNA!! DAMN GIRL WERE YOU’VE BEEN-friendly hug- : heyyyy jon sup buddy slapup/hug” and smile a lot they’ll smile back and if your happy to see them they’ll be happy to see you.(same thing goes if your introducing yourself to new people)]
Ok so now you’ve hardy harded with the fellas and you’ve chatted up every cute girl in that room, all the while dogging little smile and glances to Hotty. Now’s the time to make your move, not only is she curious, her self a steam is a little shot cause she was the last person you approached. Approach her causally ask a question start a conversation and make sure you seem really interested in what she’s saying
Now she knows you want her, but you don’t need her, you could go back to any other group of people at that party and be completely content, now she wants you.
This mindset applies not only to people your just meeting but girls you already know, and even in relationships.
For example, I call this move the squeeze and run
Alright the point of this flirting technique is to apply ample amounts of attention and the pull the rug from there feet and take it all away.
Ok so your walking down the hall and you see Sally standing there looking at some flyers with a friend. You kinda like sally and you’re a friend of hers. Now you need to put yourself in a spontaneous loving feel good mood maybe act somewhat groggy like you just woke up and your really happy- you see sally, “Sallllllyyyy heyyy come here you (but you need to go to her) now give her a hug, not too long not to short maybe say something like aaahhh your so cute! Then abruptly end the hug and say a quick bye! Or gotta go! And leave don’t give her time to respond do it so she doesn’t see it coming when you leave
She misses you now, she craves that attention, she got a taste and then it was gone! You wanted her. But you didn’t need her.
Note: happy groggy approach is only one way to execute the squeeze and run. the concept can be used in lots of ways even if its walking up behind her, giving her a quick shoulder rub and then abruptly walking away.
A little bit of this once in awhile goes a long way. It works for me on guys EVERY time. And even thoguh I know when there doing it to me it STILL drive me crazy.
