"exclusive"

[Chris]

so blah blah blah there's this girl. we really like each other. shes
more into me than i am into her but she is probably one of the
only ones in my school i would want an LTR with
(arrogant, i know)

so how should i go about become "exclusive" with her. some ppl
say wait til she brings it up, some say just go for it and tell her,
idk, thoughts?

[kbad]

I think that if she likes you enought she would bring it up (some girls will, some wouln't) so i would guess build more comfort and get into sexual stuff but make sure she knows its not just to have sex, make sure its know the sex means something.

Anyways, You could wait until she brings it up...but the relationship would have to be continually growing for her to think about something like being "exclusive".

As for "Just going for it"...sort of. If your instinct strongly tells you she would say yes. Then its probally right.

Hope it helps.
Kbad

[nutrick]

in your case man, i would do what feels right to you. no need to really overthink it, let it grow organically, maybe just increase the frequency in which you talk to her, open up a little bit more to her, but still keep that mysterious/unpredictability factor. so yeah, open up, and increase frequency, but always remain level headed in case shit goes downhill, not that it will

Cheers,
Patrick

[Chris]

lol a LITTTLEEE late.

[nate303]

Wait for her to make the move, it's usually the right decision, but it really depends on the personality