Post by wespeezy on Dec 13, 2009 2:16:33 GMT -5
So I party. Like most highschool people we live for the weekend and partying. I've got a dam good idea of what happens at parties, how little groups get broken up, how to act and how to get numbers at parties.
On any weekend night you can find me at a party having a good time whether it be talking non serious shit to my opponet at bp, talking with people and meeting new friends from other schools and hell even people at my school. So I figured I'd break it dizzown for you all on what happens at parties, how to interact and how to get the most out of your night.
Heres how my day usually starts out. So let say its a saturday. I'm waking up at about 12ish. Ill get some text blah blah. Usually ill get a text from some girl telling me " Hey blah blah is throwing a party" So then i tell my group of friends about the party or if i don't get a text from a girl my friends will tell me where the party is. So we all do our thing during the day, i play drums at my church from 5 to 7. At about 8-9 we meet up. Bullshit around talk do whatever. The real fun starts is when we get directions to the place. Half of the fun if finding this dam place. People are terrible at giving directions, and were all terrible at following them, espically when its dark. So we spend at good half hour finding the dam place. We get there and party. I usually like to be slightly tipsy because one it will destroy any hint of AA that i may get,(DO NOT RELY ON ALCOHOL TO GIVE YOU THE COURAGE TO APPROACH THE GIRL), i talk slower but not drunk slow and i can murder anyone in beer pong.
So enough about my day. Im going to try and break it down as best as I can on how parties are and how you should interact.
Prior: You need to make sure you smell good, get some cologne, gum, just make sure your smell wont make people want to move away from you. Never get there on time. If it starts at 9:30, get there at 10 EARLIEST. That way when you get there, people will already all be there enjoying themselves. If you've listend to anything by SINN he talks about doing a warm up or something. What i like to do is get my boys in a car, get some baller ass songs we all know, crank that shit up with the subs going and just dance sing, whatever, get your energy level up before you even get there. If at all possible get girls to come with you, you dont have to game them at all, they're just there to make you and your friends look like pimps aka, social proof.
First Getting there: Check your shit, your breath, your body smell, your clothing, alcohol everything. When you walk, walk slow. Try to be in the middle of the pack(like ur walking shoulder to shoulder) or just slightly ahead so people are following you. So your there, saying hi to the people smoking outside. You have to be happy, doing some handshake to the people you know and people you don't. So you walk into the door. You need to try and be the first one walking or being with all the girls. When you walk in, walk in slowwww. No one walks in slow so it will grab every ones attention when you do,peoples attention will be drawn towards you. Almost look around when you first get into the door step. Surveying the area like some alpha mutherfucker.
At the party: Your the fun socialable guy. Your saying hi to everyone, talking about stuff, telling stories, laughing and having fun. You don't have to drink if you don't want to. If your going to drink, you want to carry around your beverage. It can be a beer( please do not carry around smirnoff ice) rum and coke whatever just have it with you.
If you want to play beer pong, ask someone who's playing during that game who has next game. Find the person who has next game, tell them you want to play next and then tell the guys at the table you want to play after whoever plays. If you beat who ever you keep on playing\running the table until you lose. Be sure you actually have beer if your going to play beer pong.
Now gaming at parties isn't to complicated. A soon as you get to the party do a quick glance for a target. You find her, put it in the back of your mind to approach her later. DO NOT CONSPICUOUSLY LOOK AT HER. She will feel your eyes on her and she will be turned off, you'll be framed as the weirdo staring at her. Put her in the back of ur mind. Go around talk to people, meet new people, be laughing smiling having a good time. If you can try and do that close to where she is so she can see that your a fun guy but don't hover around her, just make sure she can see you being fun.
So after you've talked to some people you can do the approach. Usually for me ill manuever my way around, she'll bump into me and the conversation goes from there.
Another opener you can do is: Put her hand lightly on her shoulder, GUIDE her shoulder back towards you like your turning her around" ME: Hey, oh sorry i thought you were someone else, but my names(your name) Wes (handshake)" it may sound cheesy and lame but it works. So then you run game as usual. Now if your group of girl friends is with a really hot girl\ your target you want to interact with your friends first for about a minute. That will give off the " hey this guy is cool blah blah social proof. Then you want to say something along the lines of this" Who is this girl I haven't seen you before". You want to say that as your looking at your target most of the time but kind of glance over at your girl friends so they know your talking to them and know whats really going on.
So you game her doing kino if she responds well get her number, if she responds extremley well like grabbing ur ass, crotch any thing like that, your going to end up with a one night stand.
For one night stands you want to try and isolate her. If you want to fuck her there find a bed room, but chances are if she can't wait that long, then shes going to be drunk and i am not encouraging having sex with drunk girls. You want to try and move location. Whether it be back to your place, her place, friends place where ever. If you get her out of the party, the tension will build because the both of you know and sense the time for the two of you to have sex is growing closer. So do some heavy kino in the car. You may end up getting something in the car if the tension is that tight. Get her someplace and take care of business.
If you just get her number then you can talk to her for a bit after the number but you need to leave the convo, perferably on a high note so thats what she remembers you on. Do not text her till the next day.
You don't have to game every time you go to a party. Everyone is there to have a good time, get out of their house, do things their parents and the law wont let them. everyone is there for the same reason, have a good time!
Leaving: If you want to leave you need to take charge tell your friends you want to leave, if they dont want to, thats cool. But when you do, your the leader of the pack, your the first one to say the goodbyes and the first one out the door.
COPS: Every, EVERY EEEVVVEEEERRRYY party someone is going to yell cops. It in 92.4% of the time complete bull shit, espically if its before 1am. Don't listen to it. Unless someone actually shows you the cop, you get a call the cops are down the street from someone leaving the party or your trapster tells you theres a cop, there will be no cop.
If anyone has anything to add just comment or if you guys have any questions PM me
ADD ON: In my car i have what i call " The Man Kit". It consists of a lighter, chapstick, face moisturizer\acne spot treatment, condoms and gum.
I do this because at one point or another your going to need to use at least one of these at a moments notice, so its good that you have ur little kit in ur car to make you impecable
On any weekend night you can find me at a party having a good time whether it be talking non serious shit to my opponet at bp, talking with people and meeting new friends from other schools and hell even people at my school. So I figured I'd break it dizzown for you all on what happens at parties, how to interact and how to get the most out of your night.
Heres how my day usually starts out. So let say its a saturday. I'm waking up at about 12ish. Ill get some text blah blah. Usually ill get a text from some girl telling me " Hey blah blah is throwing a party" So then i tell my group of friends about the party or if i don't get a text from a girl my friends will tell me where the party is. So we all do our thing during the day, i play drums at my church from 5 to 7. At about 8-9 we meet up. Bullshit around talk do whatever. The real fun starts is when we get directions to the place. Half of the fun if finding this dam place. People are terrible at giving directions, and were all terrible at following them, espically when its dark. So we spend at good half hour finding the dam place. We get there and party. I usually like to be slightly tipsy because one it will destroy any hint of AA that i may get,(DO NOT RELY ON ALCOHOL TO GIVE YOU THE COURAGE TO APPROACH THE GIRL), i talk slower but not drunk slow and i can murder anyone in beer pong.
So enough about my day. Im going to try and break it down as best as I can on how parties are and how you should interact.
Prior: You need to make sure you smell good, get some cologne, gum, just make sure your smell wont make people want to move away from you. Never get there on time. If it starts at 9:30, get there at 10 EARLIEST. That way when you get there, people will already all be there enjoying themselves. If you've listend to anything by SINN he talks about doing a warm up or something. What i like to do is get my boys in a car, get some baller ass songs we all know, crank that shit up with the subs going and just dance sing, whatever, get your energy level up before you even get there. If at all possible get girls to come with you, you dont have to game them at all, they're just there to make you and your friends look like pimps aka, social proof.
First Getting there: Check your shit, your breath, your body smell, your clothing, alcohol everything. When you walk, walk slow. Try to be in the middle of the pack(like ur walking shoulder to shoulder) or just slightly ahead so people are following you. So your there, saying hi to the people smoking outside. You have to be happy, doing some handshake to the people you know and people you don't. So you walk into the door. You need to try and be the first one walking or being with all the girls. When you walk in, walk in slowwww. No one walks in slow so it will grab every ones attention when you do,peoples attention will be drawn towards you. Almost look around when you first get into the door step. Surveying the area like some alpha mutherfucker.
At the party: Your the fun socialable guy. Your saying hi to everyone, talking about stuff, telling stories, laughing and having fun. You don't have to drink if you don't want to. If your going to drink, you want to carry around your beverage. It can be a beer( please do not carry around smirnoff ice) rum and coke whatever just have it with you.
If you want to play beer pong, ask someone who's playing during that game who has next game. Find the person who has next game, tell them you want to play next and then tell the guys at the table you want to play after whoever plays. If you beat who ever you keep on playing\running the table until you lose. Be sure you actually have beer if your going to play beer pong.
Now gaming at parties isn't to complicated. A soon as you get to the party do a quick glance for a target. You find her, put it in the back of your mind to approach her later. DO NOT CONSPICUOUSLY LOOK AT HER. She will feel your eyes on her and she will be turned off, you'll be framed as the weirdo staring at her. Put her in the back of ur mind. Go around talk to people, meet new people, be laughing smiling having a good time. If you can try and do that close to where she is so she can see that your a fun guy but don't hover around her, just make sure she can see you being fun.
So after you've talked to some people you can do the approach. Usually for me ill manuever my way around, she'll bump into me and the conversation goes from there.
Another opener you can do is: Put her hand lightly on her shoulder, GUIDE her shoulder back towards you like your turning her around" ME: Hey, oh sorry i thought you were someone else, but my names(your name) Wes (handshake)" it may sound cheesy and lame but it works. So then you run game as usual. Now if your group of girl friends is with a really hot girl\ your target you want to interact with your friends first for about a minute. That will give off the " hey this guy is cool blah blah social proof. Then you want to say something along the lines of this" Who is this girl I haven't seen you before". You want to say that as your looking at your target most of the time but kind of glance over at your girl friends so they know your talking to them and know whats really going on.
So you game her doing kino if she responds well get her number, if she responds extremley well like grabbing ur ass, crotch any thing like that, your going to end up with a one night stand.
For one night stands you want to try and isolate her. If you want to fuck her there find a bed room, but chances are if she can't wait that long, then shes going to be drunk and i am not encouraging having sex with drunk girls. You want to try and move location. Whether it be back to your place, her place, friends place where ever. If you get her out of the party, the tension will build because the both of you know and sense the time for the two of you to have sex is growing closer. So do some heavy kino in the car. You may end up getting something in the car if the tension is that tight. Get her someplace and take care of business.
If you just get her number then you can talk to her for a bit after the number but you need to leave the convo, perferably on a high note so thats what she remembers you on. Do not text her till the next day.
You don't have to game every time you go to a party. Everyone is there to have a good time, get out of their house, do things their parents and the law wont let them. everyone is there for the same reason, have a good time!
Leaving: If you want to leave you need to take charge tell your friends you want to leave, if they dont want to, thats cool. But when you do, your the leader of the pack, your the first one to say the goodbyes and the first one out the door.
COPS: Every, EVERY EEEVVVEEEERRRYY party someone is going to yell cops. It in 92.4% of the time complete bull shit, espically if its before 1am. Don't listen to it. Unless someone actually shows you the cop, you get a call the cops are down the street from someone leaving the party or your trapster tells you theres a cop, there will be no cop.
If anyone has anything to add just comment or if you guys have any questions PM me
ADD ON: In my car i have what i call " The Man Kit". It consists of a lighter, chapstick, face moisturizer\acne spot treatment, condoms and gum.
I do this because at one point or another your going to need to use at least one of these at a moments notice, so its good that you have ur little kit in ur car to make you impecable
