xartist545
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Post by xartist545 on Dec 13, 2009 21:15:08 GMT -5
Right now I am a Sophomore, and I'm into someone who is in 8th grade (HB 10, popular) . We are only a little over a year apart though.
I've known her in a way for a few years because we do the same sport, but normally we don't talk, because we just train during practice. She has given me plenty of IOI's. (initiating conversation, putting her number in my phone, etc.)
The biggest reason for this attraction, i think, is that I am older and more mature than the people in her age group. How do I build upon this mutual attraction, and escalate it to comfort and rapport, before she gets into high school and possibly meets other guys?
Also, how can I find a way to game her outside, considering that our parents, and coaches, all know each other, and it would be weird for me to game this younger girl that they all know? anyhelp?
MAIN QUESTION: If you are confused, the main question is, how can i escalate in attraction, and move into comfort and rapport (M3 Model)?
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acezero
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Post by acezero on Dec 13, 2009 21:22:32 GMT -5
I feel this way, if you have to worry about her meeting other guys, you haven't done your job well enough.
If you have confidence in your game than you will have confidence and lose the insecurity.
Make a bullshit reason to get her number and talk to her and set up a plan.
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Post by wespeezy on Dec 13, 2009 21:28:22 GMT -5
dude ur older than her, 3 years! you could literally mess up or not be smooth at all and she wouldnt notice nearly as much
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Chris
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"you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one."
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Post by Chris on Dec 13, 2009 22:12:54 GMT -5
just qualify her a few times and start building rapport... lol
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xartist545
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Post by xartist545 on Dec 14, 2009 0:03:35 GMT -5
thanks for the reassurance guys
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Dec 14, 2009 16:44:51 GMT -5
yeah.. dont post the same thing in two categories. locked.
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