Parents vs. Sex

[Chris]

Have you guys like ever talked to your parents about having sex?

I'm starting to think i should do that, because they are becoming
a primary cock block in my life right now, and if they were cool
with me having sex, things would be much easier.

So I'm 18 on the 23rd, just a few days. Obviously they won't be
able to stop me from having sex... but I can easily predict that
their threat will be just kicking me out of the house if i do lol.

Any of you guys done this? how does one go about doing it.

[extra]

I don't get why some parents are against sex, especially if the kid is a guy. I can see why they would at least feign ignorance, or impede you if you're obvious about it (eg they can hear you/the girl/both of you) for obvious reasons (other person's parents/societal acceptance). But why would they kick you out or any of that shit if you had? I'd think they would be proud.

With me I just lock the door usually when i'm with a girl in my room or wherever, if someone knocks just say we're busy or if they're insistant then tell them you'll be out in a lil. Personally, my mother is very chill about it; i've had my curfew extended by texting her "with a girl, please let me stay out later" and she generally is cool that i'm gonna do stuff. She's found a shipment of condoms I got (muuuuuch cheaper online) and now sends packages with that return address straight to me. When she finds my door is locked and my girl is here she doesn't bother us except to yell through the door if something's up then goes away. I bump music if parents/sister are home so they don't hear it hopefully, and she has plausible deniability because i always say nah we haven't done that when she asks. But she knows, and even jokes about it with me. Shit rocks.

[Andrew]

dude my parents are cool with it. Unless I'm SUPER subtle about it they know.

And basically everything extras parents do mine do too haha. They just tell me to make sure i wrap it.

[wespeezy]

i once left a stain on my parents bed. didnt think it would show up since it was a white sheet, it definetly did. they came home saw the stain and they girls earing i bit off, ya i thought i was fucked. its a dont ask dont tell with my parents apparently.

[dionysus]

Yeah, at 18 you should be allowed to go ape shit if you want!

Now, don't get me wrong, I love sex as much as the next guy but I'm very conservative, I don't care if my dad caught me but if my sister did I'd hate myself, you know?

Also parents fear teenage pregnancy cause though people say "Yay, a baby! how cute!" kids don't understand how many doors are shut, a good saying would be:

"Just because you have it doesn't mean you know how to use it"

I don't even tell my friends sex is okay unless they know what they're doing. If you are always prepared, understand the circumstances and most importantly KNOW THE GIRLS MINDSET I would go towards the favour of your responsible enough but I've met 30 year olds who I didn't find mature enough for engaging in any sexual activity.

the VAST majority to everything in the "Adult world" is your level of maturity.

also instead of saying you don't get it just try to understand that they are the moralistic authoritarians who are always looking out for your best interests.

DON'T AGREE WITH TV!!! just on a side note every show portrays the "Adult" as either immature or a complete idiot but in reality they aren't, they are sometimes quite understanding like my dad says

"aslong as your school work is top notch and what you're doing isn't addictive or harmful to your body it is allowed."