Post by jsquared11 on Oct 17, 2008 2:40:40 GMT -5
(Side note, this post is not finished, I started writing it while talking to a girl and couldnt finish it because it was so late)
"Attraction is not a choice."
This has become a staple point for the "Seduction Community". The way David D explains this is that a girl can't choose whether or not she is attracted to you. However, this is not completely true and the definition of attraction that people use for first interactions isn't either. Attraction as defined to PUAs is that of a unknown draw to be near someone of value. This is true, but not in the first interaction.
In your first interaction with a girl, your goal is to create interest. Interest and attraction are seperate entities. They are not mutually exclusive, because you need to have interest to create attraction. When you first meet a women, you converse to generate interest. Now, the seperation between a natural and an unnatural is that; a natural treats all women the same but when he wants a particular girl he SOIs, and an unnatural specifically ignores and treats his target differently. With that being said, your first interaction you are just an interesting guy that a girl wants to explore. Attraction is what will keep her wanting you in the long run.
The fact of the matters is, when you are creating interest you are stimulating her conscious mind. You may generate a small amount of attraction, but she will not be aware of it. The feeling of attraction is not part of the conscious mind. It is a feeling based in the subconcious. It takes more than a first meeting to stimulate her subconcious enough to have an ample amount of attraction to want to always be around you. Which is the ideal goal when you pull a girl.
Once you have stimulated her subconcious enough, she will conciously be aware of the attraction. Once this happens, she is capable of making a choice of wanting to be around you. If she doesn't want to be around you "all the time" the you didn't go about things properly.
"Attraction is not a choice."
This has become a staple point for the "Seduction Community". The way David D explains this is that a girl can't choose whether or not she is attracted to you. However, this is not completely true and the definition of attraction that people use for first interactions isn't either. Attraction as defined to PUAs is that of a unknown draw to be near someone of value. This is true, but not in the first interaction.
In your first interaction with a girl, your goal is to create interest. Interest and attraction are seperate entities. They are not mutually exclusive, because you need to have interest to create attraction. When you first meet a women, you converse to generate interest. Now, the seperation between a natural and an unnatural is that; a natural treats all women the same but when he wants a particular girl he SOIs, and an unnatural specifically ignores and treats his target differently. With that being said, your first interaction you are just an interesting guy that a girl wants to explore. Attraction is what will keep her wanting you in the long run.
The fact of the matters is, when you are creating interest you are stimulating her conscious mind. You may generate a small amount of attraction, but she will not be aware of it. The feeling of attraction is not part of the conscious mind. It is a feeling based in the subconcious. It takes more than a first meeting to stimulate her subconcious enough to have an ample amount of attraction to want to always be around you. Which is the ideal goal when you pull a girl.
Once you have stimulated her subconcious enough, she will conciously be aware of the attraction. Once this happens, she is capable of making a choice of wanting to be around you. If she doesn't want to be around you "all the time" the you didn't go about things properly.
