Post by pokemon on Jan 1, 2010 6:10:44 GMT -5
I was at a new year's party this past day and it's safe to say that I was fucking GONE. Now, with the liquid courage/stupidity coursing through my veins I started to babble.
I am still a bit drunk after almost 5 hours after the party ended and the only thing keeping me together is the 6 redbulls I downed from 2:30 to now.
Please, learn from my mistake and/or my success. how ever you want to look at it.
I was in a 5 set of this college kid and 4 girls. We were all sitting in a circle just chilling and drinking and the conversation turned to sex. Take into account that my frame is insanely sexual so this was basically inevitable.
Now I hadn't planned on gaming that night. because the girl i wanted to hook up with that night flaked because her boyfriend broke up with her. I guess maybe I didn't build enough A or something.. (this is the girl i posted about before) So basically I just wanted to have a shit ton of fun.
This chick starts telling me how she once gave head for an hour and 30 minutes and I told her I was shocked at this.
(she said her neck hurt for a week after and I took this as my cue to start massaging her there ;] )
In my drunken stupor, i wanted to be the center of attention so I told her that for head I like to get off as soon as possible and but for sex I like a long sesh.
The college guy agrees and we go off on this topic.
I go and tell a bunch of my sex stories which, is actually low value believe it or not. Not that I give a shit about the value system or anything.. but technically it's kissing and telling which will diminish your chances of getting laid faster than a flame in a tornado.
For example, this girl was talking about some chick she knew that had fucked over 70 guys.. I was again shocked and impressed! I said so and told her that I'm still trying to reach the 30 milestone.
actually this is HORRIBLE. because I'm bragging and K-Telling. horrible horrible horrible.
But the effect wasn't bad as bad as it would've usually been because I had previously set the frame that I was a cocky douchebag. One girl even pushed her boobs into me while she was hugging and told me she'd cheer me on and that we should have a party when i hit 30. wtf.
The thing is, girls don't want to become one of those stories. I honestly probably won't ever hook up with any of those girls.. but I just opened like 5 towns and a whole college worth of social circles and there are DEFINITELY chicks there who'd be DTF.
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So here is the whole point of this huge post.
There's shit that's written up on PUA theory that's true most of the time and have ALOT of evidence to back it up. But, there are tons of guys out there getting laid who have a lot of AFC traits and don't do all the shit we do.
So my point is basically don't be so uptight about following this PUA stuff. I mean, it helps a SHITLOAD because it allows you to process all the shit that's happening to you better. But don't let it confine you and prevent you from doing somethings that you want to do.
For example, Mystery says never chase a moving target.. honestly it doesn't really matter that much. I mean, I guess it might lower your value or something a tad. But a Wolf doesn't fucking sit while his pray is leaving. He will chase that shit down and take it.
Another good example is talking too fast. Shit dude, I mean tonality is important but you can spit game fast and still pull. Style talks SO fast and still is one of the greatest PUAs out there.
And you're not supposed to lean in and show interest. A lot of guys show interest first, and game from there no bullshit. Guess what, you don't get the LJBF because they know you don't wanna be friends. AND most of the time being shown interest is a new experience and will foster new and exciting feelings in the woman.
Do what you want and ENJOY yourselves. peaaace I'm gonna go eat chicken fingers.
Oh yeah, remember one thing please. I didn't hookup tonight, that will put this in the proper perspective.
I am still a bit drunk after almost 5 hours after the party ended and the only thing keeping me together is the 6 redbulls I downed from 2:30 to now.
Please, learn from my mistake and/or my success. how ever you want to look at it.
I was in a 5 set of this college kid and 4 girls. We were all sitting in a circle just chilling and drinking and the conversation turned to sex. Take into account that my frame is insanely sexual so this was basically inevitable.
Now I hadn't planned on gaming that night. because the girl i wanted to hook up with that night flaked because her boyfriend broke up with her. I guess maybe I didn't build enough A or something.. (this is the girl i posted about before) So basically I just wanted to have a shit ton of fun.
This chick starts telling me how she once gave head for an hour and 30 minutes and I told her I was shocked at this.
(she said her neck hurt for a week after and I took this as my cue to start massaging her there ;] )
In my drunken stupor, i wanted to be the center of attention so I told her that for head I like to get off as soon as possible and but for sex I like a long sesh.
The college guy agrees and we go off on this topic.
I go and tell a bunch of my sex stories which, is actually low value believe it or not. Not that I give a shit about the value system or anything.. but technically it's kissing and telling which will diminish your chances of getting laid faster than a flame in a tornado.
For example, this girl was talking about some chick she knew that had fucked over 70 guys.. I was again shocked and impressed! I said so and told her that I'm still trying to reach the 30 milestone.
actually this is HORRIBLE. because I'm bragging and K-Telling. horrible horrible horrible.
But the effect wasn't bad as bad as it would've usually been because I had previously set the frame that I was a cocky douchebag. One girl even pushed her boobs into me while she was hugging and told me she'd cheer me on and that we should have a party when i hit 30. wtf.
The thing is, girls don't want to become one of those stories. I honestly probably won't ever hook up with any of those girls.. but I just opened like 5 towns and a whole college worth of social circles and there are DEFINITELY chicks there who'd be DTF.
-------------------------
So here is the whole point of this huge post.
There's shit that's written up on PUA theory that's true most of the time and have ALOT of evidence to back it up. But, there are tons of guys out there getting laid who have a lot of AFC traits and don't do all the shit we do.
So my point is basically don't be so uptight about following this PUA stuff. I mean, it helps a SHITLOAD because it allows you to process all the shit that's happening to you better. But don't let it confine you and prevent you from doing somethings that you want to do.
For example, Mystery says never chase a moving target.. honestly it doesn't really matter that much. I mean, I guess it might lower your value or something a tad. But a Wolf doesn't fucking sit while his pray is leaving. He will chase that shit down and take it.
Another good example is talking too fast. Shit dude, I mean tonality is important but you can spit game fast and still pull. Style talks SO fast and still is one of the greatest PUAs out there.
And you're not supposed to lean in and show interest. A lot of guys show interest first, and game from there no bullshit. Guess what, you don't get the LJBF because they know you don't wanna be friends. AND most of the time being shown interest is a new experience and will foster new and exciting feelings in the woman.
Do what you want and ENJOY yourselves. peaaace I'm gonna go eat chicken fingers.
Oh yeah, remember one thing please. I didn't hookup tonight, that will put this in the proper perspective.
