Updated Social Scale-Moving up and Staying.

[twotyme]

Social proof and social status is mental masturbation buddy

[Contempt]

hey "buddy",
It doesnt matter what it is if it helps you get girls. Sorry.

-Contempt

[twotyme]

Exactly, this scale doesnt help

[Shampoo]

You guys either hang out with ugly ass chicks, or just talking out of your asses just to sound like you know this shit. First of all a guy lower than your social group will NEVER get a hot girl in the top social group. You dont have to be in the social group to get the girl but you need to be high up there. This is unless your an upperclassmen.

Dont fucking talk to me about how theres no cliques or how anyone can stay in the loser social group and get chicks. Or bring out the bullshit thats what I meant...

[twotyme]

Straight from google i didnt add a word - Mental Masturbation
The act of engaging in useless yet
intellectually stimulating
conversation, usually as an excuse to
avoid taking constructive action in
your life.
Guy 1: "If only I had taken Cindy to
my high school prom, I could have
fucked her instead of that loser Jeff
and then now she would be my
girlfriend."
Guy 2: "Dude, stop that mental
masturbation right now and go out
and meet a new girl!"

[Traxx]

twotyme, you're 15. You've been in high school how long? One year if that? Exactly.

These people have already been through a lot in high school and know how these things work. All you're doing is making yourself look like a know-it-all ass who thinks he's been through everything. A freshman doesn't know shit about high school. How about you be open minded and consider the fact that you may be wrong. Besides, if you know it all better than anyone here, then why do you come here if you don't write articles or constructive comments? Aren't you "mental masturbating" and wasting time to take "constructive action"?

[twotyme]

Dude i swear i was exactly like this for like 6 months or so studying social scales needing social proof, dhv'ing making a special time 4 comfort having a cheat sheet wen i go out or whatever, the guy that brought me into the game is 18 nd is amazing he made me see the light.. Yeah man i have alot to learn but if its something that cant make you better in my expirience why bother - iv written two articles in the past 2 days you should read them and tell me what you think

[canadiankid]

I'm not saying I'm an expert but social status MATTERS in high school. I went from near the bottom to near the top and it's amazing the difference. I get treated better, invited to outings/parties etc and hang out with girls. That never happened before, and yes some of it is confidence and asking because I'm confident enough but I watch kids from where I used to be get ostracized and rejected before they even ask because they are not high enough social status and have a reputation as a *insert lame namecalling name here*. Anyways show some respect boys, if you don't believe it then just do your thing, be a man and stop being that annoying kid who always tries to be right. (That used to be me, it's fucking annoying and I'm glad I grew up and realized it)

[twotyme]

Yeah i understand what you sayin.. Just offering a different perspective ey

[canadiankid]

Yeah and that's always good, just try not to act too cocky or be a dick when your expressing that opinion.

[Contempt]

Shampoo, i didn't mean that it was common for people lower down on the social scene to get girls higher up on the social scene. In fact its extremely unlikely, however it is plausible and a was recognizing it on that level. I've seen it happen once or twice, not with the wayy top girls but with some girls kinda "up there". I guess i wasnt quite clear on my wording, the best way to describe it would be possible, but not probable. If anything else i said sounds like i'm talking out of my ass please tell me because i'm here to learn as much as possible and would like to get your opinion.

Thanks,
-Contempt

[perceverance]

any tips on how to get high up there on the social ladder? there is ONE group that has hot girls in my school. problem is, its really shut down to newcomers. most of the people in there are friends from middle school and they dont really like newcomers. its the ONLY group that has decent-hot girls.

[Adam]

I think people think status matters cause when they get statis they star acting more alpha and deserving of status. With higher status you are more comfortable in your reality making it easier to impose it on to others. It is not the status that makes you better with girls it is how the status makes you feel that makes you better with girls. Etheir way popularity will automaticaly come if you are truly good with girls and not a striaght up dick.

[pipe1x]

gold mine +1