Socrates
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Post by Socrates on Jan 26, 2010 12:20:58 GMT -5
I have only been 2 one party and It was because the person hosting it invited me. I have heard of other parties that go on and my friends ask me to come but I feel that its kinda wierd to crash a party when the host didn't invite u.
I mean is this normal? Or do all you guys go to parties because u hear about it even tho ur not invited by the host.
The party i went to I got too wasted and it ruined it. I felt that I ruined the party but i didnt. because i was throing up in the girls plants and shit lol.
Never got drunk ever since and that was last year. Do you think i dont get invited because of that incident?
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extra
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Post by extra on Jan 26, 2010 18:42:33 GMT -5
Yeah sometimes, parties generally the host doesn't know who wants to come and can't invite everyone (if it's open house) so if you're friends with the people/alright or neutral to the host it's all good. And just don't drink so fast man
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Post by wespeezy on Jan 26, 2010 18:44:22 GMT -5
Yes, its very normal to crash parties your not invited. You may feel like a dick but its kind of like an unwritten code, you hear about a party, you can go.
Its kinda like if your the person throwing the party, you have to expect other people to find out about it. say you invite 10 people, 20 will show up.
Alot of people do dumb shit at parties, dont worry about it. If you do dumb shit often, you will begin to build a reputation for it.
I get drunk\tipsy at parties, but not to the point that i throw up. Its actually kind of good that you found your limit, you threw up. dont break that limit again, and you'll be fine
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Post by Eastcoast on Jan 26, 2010 20:40:55 GMT -5
Yeah, weezy is right on with everything.As long as your good with the people its not really a big issue . For parties with about 30+ no ones even gonna notice anyway haha. The only time that you shouldnt show up would be like a "get together" (dunno if thats what you guys call them)which would be only a few people pretty much invite only.
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zegoni
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Post by zegoni on Feb 7, 2010 20:16:18 GMT -5
lol, where I live, going to a party you're not invited to is really the worst thing you can do to your reputation. youre going to have "loser" written all over you. it's all about asking, though. I've been to a few quite big parties where I didn't know the host... and Ive been invited just a few hours before start. birthday parties too. key is, I already knew half of the people there. social proof at it's best. <3
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Post by wespeezy on Feb 10, 2010 0:48:05 GMT -5
lol, where I live, going to a party you're not invited to is really the worst thing you can do to your reputation. youre going to have "loser" written all over you. it's all about asking, though. I've been to a few quite big parties where I didn't know the host... and Ive been invited just a few hours before start. birthday parties too. key is, I already knew half of the people there. social proof at it's best. <3 Thats a good point also. But kind of part of the "unwritten rules" if you or your friend don't know the host or you don't know the host, don't go. Besides, if you don't know anyone going, then who would you talk to...awkwarddddddd. A party is not exactly like a club but it is. make sense? If you don't know people there, your going to walk around aimlessly talking to people you don't know and they may not know you. You may even have a reputation but being some weirdo, thus makig your reputation worse. Just like a club or party, if you don't have a group of friends to kind of fall back or relate with...you'll look like a fucking weirdo.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2010 1:56:55 GMT -5
Just to let you know Weezy, in college you rarely know people at the parties. Of course once you get in with the party scene, you will see a loot of familiar faces, but usually you only go with a few friends.
Just talk to people, that's what parties are for: to meet new people, not to hang out with the same friends you always hang out with. What's the point in going to party if you're going to do that?
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Post by wespeezy on Feb 10, 2010 19:30:01 GMT -5
all of the college parties ive been to, which is 5-6, i went because i knew people there or because i was invited. but maybe thats just how it is with going to college parties in highschool.
I agree ONE of the points of going to parties is to meet new people. You ALSO go to parties to do stuff with your friends and people that you know, that you couldn't do at your house or school. Like play beer pong, flip cup, circle of death, thumper, KINGS, smoke in a room.
Where do you go?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2010 22:04:40 GMT -5
all of the college parties ive been to, which is 5-6, i went because i knew people there or because i was invited. but maybe thats just how it is with going to college parties in highschool. I agree ONE of the points of going to parties is to meet new people. You ALSO go to parties to do stuff with your friends and people that you know, that you couldn't do at your house or school. Like play beer pong, flip cup, circle of death, thumper, KINGS, smoke in a room. Where do you go? You are right about going to highschool parties if you aren't invited. That's just not cool, however, college parties is a whole nother subject. I've actually got a shit load of funny stories about me and a few peeps crashing parties. Anywho, we still play those games when we don't go to parties, except it's gotta be a lot more undercover haha. I don't see the point in going to a party to just play games. I hear those people who are like "Shit son, I ran the table last night" and I ask them if they actually talked to anyone besides their partners and trash talking the other team and they usually say no. Don't get me wrong I love playing all those games, but I go to parties mainly to socialize and have a good fucking time. BTW, I go to UW Milwaukee
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