Chris
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"you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one."
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Post by Chris on Oct 26, 2008 12:32:25 GMT -5
Ehhh... I stopped masturbating because everytime i did it it made me feel low self esteem.
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nine
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Post by nine on Oct 26, 2008 22:47:16 GMT -5
Do you have low self-esteem whenever you eat a salad? Or have a good work-out? That's basically what it is, you're preforming maintenance on your body to keep yourself healthy. If keeping yourself healthy lowers your self-esteem, then there's a problem there.
Oh, and we all know Mystery isn't the greatest at taking care of himself. Plus, didn't he have an entire harddrive full of lesbian porn when he became the world's greatest pick-up artist?
Nine
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Luc
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Post by Luc on Nov 12, 2008 20:47:27 GMT -5
^^^ dude wrong post, find the masturbation post!
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Post by Andrew on Nov 13, 2008 18:43:44 GMT -5
i talk about porn with my friends the same way we talk about sports
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panaboy
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Post by panaboy on Jan 26, 2009 16:32:09 GMT -5
just get over the first three days man and it gets easier i swear
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jeez
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Post by jeez on Feb 6, 2009 0:17:11 GMT -5
I was addicted to World of Warcraft (stop laughing plox). I know it sounds totally lame, but I might be able to somewhat relate to what you're going through. A lot of the dudes at my school play WoW, so everywhere I go someone's talking about it and it makes me want to alienate all my friends and my family, spend all my time playing, and just let my grades and social life die. What I did was I took up guitar. It's totally thereuputic and so much better than wasting my life on that game. I keep remembering all the emotional pain I felt when I saw how much time I wasted on it. Also, stories from other people about why they quit and reasons why they're still clean work. For WoW I have www.wowdetox.comrofl me too, i completely hid it from all my friends(my friends are like jocks or stoners) like i would change the name of folder and shit and never talk to the 2 kids(that knew i played) during school. Learning PUA has stopped me from playing, too busy with a real life to get back into it
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Paetar
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Post by Paetar on Feb 7, 2009 18:51:59 GMT -5
Well, I've stopped it. Managed to, even I don't know how.
You know what, actually I do.
Every time I'd see someone having a cigarette, I'd say to myself "Why not?" And never I had the answer. But now I have - and loads of them.
It's bad for my health. I'll stink. I'll hate myself when I come home. I'll cough. My voice will be fucked up. I'm giving into my lowest desires. I'm giving into stupid corporate fucks who are such jerks that they make money out of other people's misery. Fuck, do I really need it? I don't think so.
AND after a while it started to stink! I can't fucking stand it anymore! The other day I was drunk as hell and tried one cigarette (after not smoking for a month) - man I nearly choked to death!
BTW having cold helps. You start to hate smoking.
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dionysus
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Post by dionysus on Apr 13, 2010 7:39:03 GMT -5
I was in the same position as you were man and it is HARD I know so I did some research and found some super helpful facts incase it's still relavent in your life:
1. 90% of the addiction is in your head so generally think about some thing else ( I blasted my ipod constantly and caught up on alot of reading for like a week)
2. nicotine only stays in the blood stream for 72 hours so beat the 3 day period and you're half way there
and the hardest rule 3. you are the company you keep, STAY AWAY FROM SMOKERS atleast until the urge is gone, trust me it helps.
I hope anyone who reads this benefits from it
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