Need some help with an old crush...

[captsamm]

Hey guys, im kinda new to the forms and i need some advice.

Im gonna give you guys the shortened story. Back in the day (middle school) i use to be a little chubby so i wasnt to good with the girls. When i got to high school year i had lost the weight and i started attracting girls like no other.. but since i had no experience with them i was an afc....

Anyways what happened is that i fell for my friends sister.... She supposedly liked me but it didnt work our for two reasons, she was my friends sister and i found out that she had done some stuff and i over reacted (i thought that was a bad thing back in the day.)

So that was the end of that for about a year... then she found out i was suppose to move.. and she came on strong (crying and so on). When she found out i was gonna stay she moved on and got a boy friend. I was still an AFC.

Since then i have moved on and learned a lot thanks to you guys.

But in the recent weeks i've seen her some and she's showing some IOIs, and according to her mom, who loves me, her and her boyfriend that she's had for almost two years are fighting (he is a afc).

Part of me wants to show her i've chanced and win her over? advice please?

[Caesar]

all you gotta do is convey that your interested without being overly desperate. show her your not an afc. it sounds like she's into you already, so no need to neg or qualify her or any of that. Just be that funny and playful guy who takes her boredom away and stay just out of her reach (cat-string theory).

[captsamm]

Thanks Caesar.

The thing is the only time i see her is when im over at my friends house... here is some more info, she was cheated on by her x so she is like the man in her relationship, the guy is over basically every day... it sucks! And when i text her i can only keep her in a good conversation for about 30min before she starts to slip... she isnt your average girl, she is smart, she knows what im doing (im pretty sure).

[phoenix]

"Part of me wants to show her i've chanced and win her over? advice please?"

You need to change your mindset. You're valuing this one girl a little too much. From what you've said, this girl doesn't sound like someone I'd wanna date, but if you really want it, stop thinking you have to "show her" you've changed and "win her over". If you wanna do something like that, I'm sure you can find some great poetry on the web to serenade her...

First off, this girl hasn't done anything to deserve you. You should just lean back and get on with your life, and SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
Second, pack on the inner game, buddy.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

dude you have the same problem i had its amazing my friends sister lol but anyway dude with this girl do not make fun of her boyfriend, do not be direct and do not DLV(well that one is obvious) haha

[johnwarner]

Crushes are a little bit like the romantic love adults feel toward one another. And in a way, a crush can help us think about the kind of person that we want to love when we grow up. They help us understand which qualities we notice and like in another person — and maybe a few that we don't like.

[secret]

highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=staffsociety&thread=2974

i gotta agree with Phoenix need to work on your inner game, the link above is me explaining an easy way to look at life that boosted my inner game through the roof, as well as helped a few other members there videos so no need to read just sit back relax and listening