WhiteKnight
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Post by WhiteKnight on Feb 22, 2010 22:27:39 GMT -5
My friend Mike has been seeing a new girl. The thing is we have really similar taste, a girl I was into earlier this year he was at the same time...no fun(we both figured out she's just a tease I don't like her, he does they're friends).
When I heard who it was I immediately knew there could be issues but I thought, no he's a good friend and I can deal with it. The girl is Kristen, a girl I had a huge crush on in my big AFC days. She had been in a 2 year relationship with a guy she loves and a month ago he ended it with her. She is in pretty bad shape even though she doesn't show it.
She isn't really looking for anything serious, just fun. But still she is now having this fun with Mike. Now I have great taste, I read people its like one of my talents. I knew she would be awesome, and after hanging out with her a couple of times I can now say for sure. She is great.
What do I do? Go for it and risk losing a friend not to mention that even with great game the odds seem badly against me at the moment, or remain a good friend.
My friend Mike's friend Matt has kinda been cock blocking him, should I step in and set a pick for Mike? Or let it happen so maybe Mike will get bored and give up?
What is the right thing to do here? And how do I do it?
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Johnny Bravo
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Feb 23, 2010 0:28:42 GMT -5
Its not your affair man. Don't get involved.
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WhiteKnight
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Post by WhiteKnight on Feb 24, 2010 13:32:18 GMT -5
I will always be a good wing and give my friend the best chance, I will not let anyone cock block him. Not my affair, our other friend is trying to get with this girl. They aren't exclusive yet so I was asking if I can pursue her as well, where are the lines between good friend and jerk. There must be a way for me to find a middleground. All I was suggesting was from personal experiences what you guys think would be best.
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jhonrider19
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Post by jhonrider19 on Mar 3, 2010 7:28:09 GMT -5
You should not involve in these things and try to avoid. You can get many girls but It is really hard to find the true friend. There is famous saying that “Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.” So, you should not anything which will break your friendship.
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