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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Feb 25, 2010 22:45:40 GMT -5
so guys lets face it women can be REALLY different on their period or on some kind of mood swing. so, how do we handle these things for example:(btw this is a friend of mine)
Me: hey how are you, boring as always?(with a big smile in face insinuating joke) girl: My god!!, cant you take anything seriously? (screaming)
so the point is what do you do there in my experience even if your nice they will scream at you. well the answer is quite obvious GET ANGRY dont let her do that, just because her ovaries hurt doesnt mean its the end of the world. what i did in the example above was say that she doesnt have to be all bitchy about it that it was only a joke.
BUT... the key is that afterwards you treat her normally
in the end she came up to me and asked me why i didnt call her as much anymore ;D
So, what do you guys do?
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Post by Volt on Feb 26, 2010 1:09:21 GMT -5
Ever have a killer headache and parents that don't know when to shut up? From my understanding that's what PMS is like, but not a headache. If you're not being an asshole, this is the right move. If you are, cut your losses and bail.
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Feb 26, 2010 15:42:37 GMT -5
Ever have a killer headache and parents that don't know when to shut up? From my understanding that's what PMS is like, but not a headache. If you're not being an asshole, this is the right move. If you are, cut your losses and bail. true man haha btw i deal with a mom that has PMDD witch is worse unlike PMS this one actually alters her behavior (not mood, behavior)
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Post by Andrew on Feb 26, 2010 21:40:13 GMT -5
wowwwwww super bad idea.
walk away. she doesnt want to deal with your shit. My friend just read this over my shoulder and was SURE that this was a joke because that is such a baaaad idea
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Feb 27, 2010 13:17:12 GMT -5
wowwwwww super bad idea. walk away. she doesnt want to deal with your shit. My friend just read this over my shoulder and was SURE that this was a joke because that is such a baaaad idea well i know your just trying to help but i find that a tad insulting haha see this worked for me and i have had to deal with again i mention a woman on pmdd witch is worse for 15 years but lets look at reality i may have some kind of grudge on women with PMS because of my mom haha i could be wrong but if im being nice to her and i make that how are you boring as always thing as a joke and btw right after she playfully made fun of me and then she just snaps (because of her period) I CAN NOT LET HER!!!! no matter how counter productive it may be if i dont take that shit from my mom, i aint taking from no one else. in my case i feel that this is the right thing to do it goes with my personality and i know its in my case that why i asked what you guys do
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Post by nutrick on Feb 27, 2010 15:04:25 GMT -5
wowwwwww super bad idea. walk away. she doesnt want to deal with your shit. My friend just read this over my shoulder and was SURE that this was a joke because that is such a baaaad idea well i know your just trying to help but i find that a tad insulting haha see this worked for me and i have had to deal with again i mention a woman on pmdd witch is worse for 15 years but lets look at reality i may have some kind of grudge on women with PMS because of my mom haha i could be wrong but if im being nice to her and i make that how are you boring as always thing as a joke and btw right after she playfully made fun of me and then she just snaps (because of her period) I CAN NOT LET HER!!!! no matter how counter productive it may be if i dont take that shit from my mom, i aint taking from no one else. in my case i feel that this is the right thing to do it goes with my personality and i know its in my case that why i asked what you guys do trust me, we understand where you're coming from, but if you're going to voice your opinion, learn not to take criticisms personally in that situation, i would disregard her mood and talk to her like i do normally without ever taking into account the fact that she's on her period. if it's to a point where we can't have a great conversation, i'll talk to her later when she's in a better mood. but see that's my style. respect it as i have for yours, and learn from it. Cheers, Patrick
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Feb 27, 2010 20:39:36 GMT -5
nutrick yea man thnx for the advice
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Feb 27, 2010 22:19:01 GMT -5
Every girl is different. Every girl's period is different.
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