nathanial
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Registered: May 2, 2009 20:11:47 GMT -5
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Post by nathanial on Mar 2, 2010 18:42:20 GMT -5
Ok, so I'm not on the forums often at all, and I rarely make it to the webinars so most of you probably don't know me, but some of you (eg. Secret) have spoken to me often through MSN, skype, facebook etc. so know the basics of my development.
I've been working on improving my game over the past few months ever since my ex dumped me (I was hoping to win her back), through this I've learned a lot about women and improving myself, and in the process I've gotten myself an amazing girlfriend whom I'm crazy in love with. However this past weekend I was hanging out with the ex in question and a situation arouse when I could tell that she wanted me to make out with her. I was faced with a moral dillema, make out with this sexy girl that I had worked so hard to get, or remain loyal to my also very sexy girlfriend.
In this moment I was thinking about what an alpha man would do. At first I thought, "I'll do it, Alpha males take what they want and don't play by society's rules" but that is only part of it. While the alpha male plays by his own rules (pne of which may include polygamy) the alpha man also SPREADS LOVE. If the alpha man is in a relationship, he treats his lady right, if you want multiple partners, make that clear, because the alpha man, makes sure his lady isn't hurt.
If you are in a commited relationship, no matter if you have the temptation or the skills, the alpha is monogamous
Just my take
P.S besides your girlfried will gladly pleasure more than you can imagine
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Chris
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Old Specialist
"you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one."
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Registered: Jul 6, 2008 12:05:22 GMT -5
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Post by Chris on Mar 2, 2010 19:14:52 GMT -5
I agree. If you are in an EXCLUSIVE relationship, meaning you guys don't see other people, and you have the moral value of loyalty, you must stay true to that personal value.
If you don't know what your moral opinion on cheating and loyalty is, you must define it. an alpha male is clearly defined. I see this moment forced you to define that part of yourself.
Although you don't have to be loyal to be an alpha male, you still have to live up to your personal values, whatever they may be.
+1 for doing so.
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