Im new help

[whatheshets]

i just went to a new school and a cute girl sits next to me in break for like 5 minutes to talk to me. shes a friendly person and talks to everyone, how do i get her to see me more then a friend? ive only known this girl for like 3 days

[nutrick]

well show her your true self, joke around, tease her, have a great time with her, and get comfortable physically with high fives, secret handshakes, etc.

[whatheshets]

Mar 2, 2010 22:26:52 GMT -5 nutrick said:

well show her your true self, joke around, tease her, have a great time with her, and get comfortable physically with high fives, secret handshakes, etc.

how do i get closer to her?

[Deleted]

Get her number dude. It's really easy.
After a conversation with her, before your next class or whatever you're going just say something like, "Hey, you're really (something you noticed about her that you personally find cool, or just use cool if you want to be unoriginal), you should give me your number." And if you want to throw in something extra (I usually always say this) you can say something like,"Don't worry, I'll only call you 10 times a day!"

Talk to her, text her, hang out with her. Also, don't be needy. Don't text her every other day just to see what she's doing.

You can do it, man!

[whatheshets]

Mar 5, 2010 1:27:09 GMT -5 @aaron4prez said:

Get her number dude. It's really easy.
After a conversation with her, before your next class or whatever you're going just say something like, "Hey, you're really (something you noticed about her that you personally find cool, or just use cool if you want to be unoriginal), you should give me your number." And if you want to throw in something extra (I usually always say this) you can say something like,"Don't worry, I'll only call you 10 times a day!"

Talk to her, text her, hang out with her. Also, don't be needy. Don't text her every other day just to see what she's doing.

You can do it, man!

she seems to be really flirty, a friend of mine told me she went out with his friend and she was still going around flirting etc, i dont think i want that

[Deleted]

Is that really how you feel, or is that you just rationalizing why you shouldn't talk to her and get her number?

If it is really how you feel, well I got some news that may shock you. Girls flirt with guys. Girls love to flirt. It's fun, it produces chemicals that feel good. Girls flirt with guys allllll the time, even if they have boyfriends. Hell guys do it too. It's just something people do because it's fun and it feels good and doesn't stop just if you get a significant other. Sure, you'll cut down, but people flirt. It's a fact of life.

Just go for it. Trust me, it'll be ok. I don't want you to regret anything. (This is the part where I just spit a bunch of mumbo jumbo on regrets).

Just remember, the decisions you don't make are the decisions you regret.

[whatheshets]

Mar 5, 2010 15:15:17 GMT -5 @aaron4prez said:

Is that really how you feel, or is that you just rationalizing why you shouldn't talk to her and get her number?

If it is really how you feel, well I got some news that may shock you. Girls flirt with guys. Girls love to flirt. It's fun, it produces chemicals that feel good. Girls flirt with guys allllll the time, even if they have boyfriends. Hell guys do it too. It's just something people do because it's fun and it feels good and doesn't stop just if you get a significant other. Sure, you'll cut down, but people flirt. It's a fact of life.

Just go for it. Trust me, it'll be ok. I don't want you to regret anything. (This is the part where I just spit a bunch of mumbo jumbo on regrets).

Just remember, the decisions you don't make are the decisions you regret.

okay i will try that on monday, but how do i know if a flirty girl actually likes me more then a friend, because she seems to flirt with all her friends

[Deleted]

There's no real way to know what's going through a girls head. Just do a lot of kino, make her comfortable to your touch. But don't be really touchy, btw i'm really good at contradicting myself haha.

Just be natural about it. Also, try a few take-aways. Those will gauge her interest for you. Like say something like, "The craziest thing happened to me the other day... No, I probably shouldn't tell you." Her reaction to that will usually tell you how she feels about you.