Chris
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"you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one."
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Post by Chris on Oct 20, 2008 18:40:43 GMT -5
Have you ever been walking in the hallways at school and you see a guy and girl talking? Obviously. Notice though how the guys attention is USUALLY oriented to the girl. He is trying to get eye contact with her, he is orienting his head to hers, he is basically "pursuing" her attention. All the while the girl rarely turns her head to accomodate him and just looks forward the whole time. This communicates HIGH STATUS!
So I tried this today with and HB8.5 today that I have been getting some IOIs with lately (a lot actually). After class, I walked down the hall with her and blah blah cockyfunny whatever. But I made sure I wasn't the one orienting myself or trying to get her attention. I just looked forward most the time, only briefly turning my head to her when she said something interesting. I noticed that SHE was constantly trying to get my attention by doing all the examples I listed above. I was the HIGH STATUS one and she was doing the "pursuing."
So the point here is dont be the orienting yourself to her, ESPECIALLY early on. You communicate HIGH STATUS by not doing this and it flips certain attraction switches. Try it out.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 20, 2008 18:46:43 GMT -5
i actually notice that i do that when Im talking to people that i dont particularly like or want to talk to. Ill have to try that for girls i like too.
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Oct 20, 2008 18:52:36 GMT -5
No mention of the push pull>??
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Chris
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Post by Chris on Oct 20, 2008 18:54:53 GMT -5
No mention of the push pull>?? That's for a separate post... pobably hallway game. You can take care of it... unless you WANT me too. lol.
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Oct 28, 2008 5:43:35 GMT -5
that makes sense "Wanting what you cant have" kind of frame i guess
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Post by amarok on Nov 30, 2010 15:30:14 GMT -5
i actually notice that i do that when Im talking to people that i dont particularly like or want to talk to. Ill have to try that for girls i like too. That's actually very common. It's called "fronting". It's when you don't give someone you don't like (an "enemy") access to your vulnerable chest/neck areas. It does also show that you don't even need to worry about watching them because you're so alpha. (studied body language from real simply body language books)
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timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Dec 9, 2010 17:29:10 GMT -5
holy shit man tried it out and man it worked great id normally give the chick all my attention and was always wondering why it seemed off but this worked great. One thing that worked like a charm was i jokingly told her to wait a sec texted then kept walking but still thats great
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jrtheprince14
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Post by jrtheprince14 on Jun 23, 2013 3:46:23 GMT -5
I've really wanted to try this on some girls that I'm trying to juggle. But I've never really thought that it would work.
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