date advice please

[tylermarx]

So i just joined this site not seconds ago. from what i've seen you guys are a great help. I'm a freshman in high school.

So, this girl i haven't seen since elementary school adds me on facebook and i started talking to her (she's mad cute) and i got her number.

i've texted her for the past day or so and today (don't really know how to explain it) i did this sort of "you can't handle me" thing and when she said she could i said "i guess we'll have to wait and find out." she told me to let her know when and where so i said i'd call her later to talk about it.

so i have to call her and set up a date, any help with these questions would be great.

1) neither of us really said the word "date." I'm almost positive she wants one, but i want to make sure she doesn't think i just want to hang out.

2) where do i take her? I was thinking the movies or something but i'm not sure. we're both freshman in highschool so neither of us have a car.

3) i haven't seen her in forever so i'm a bit worried about what we'll talk about and stuff.

4) i think i'd have to kiss her on the first date to avoid her thinking i don't like her or i'm not confident enough. what's the best time to do this?

sorry for all the questions, but i'm almost completely new to this. thanks in advance.

[extra]

Man, from my experience, if a girl wants it and you're willing to create a situation where it can happen, it will happen. There's no real way to fuck it up.

Just call her up or text her or whateva, be your best, hottest funny ass self, yo biddie whata you doin whatever, make a plan to chill where you will get alone time either then or later that same time, and go with the flow. Positive energy and sexual vibe, you don't even have to prove it that much if you're just being all natural, touching her and stuff a lil more than usualy if you want something to do.

And all in all, if you think it may be time to pull the trigger but aren't sure, do it right then.

I don't promise 100% success, but this is generally how it goes and if it doesn't work, there's plenty of other girls man.

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Mar 22, 2010 19:54:49 GMT -5 tylermarx said:

So i just joined this site not seconds ago. from what i've seen you guys are a great help. I'm a freshman in high school.

So, this girl i haven't seen since elementary school adds me on facebook and i started talking to her (she's mad cute) and i got her number.

i've texted her for the past day or so and today (don't really know how to explain it) i did this sort of "you can't handle me" thing and when she said she could i said "i guess we'll have to wait and find out." she told me to let her know when and where so i said i'd call her later to talk about it.

so i have to call her and set up a date, any help with these questions would be great.

1) neither of us really said the word "date." I'm almost positive she wants one, but i want to make sure she doesn't think i just want to hang out.

2) where do i take her? I was thinking the movies or something but i'm not sure. we're both freshman in highschool so neither of us have a car.

3) i haven't seen her in forever so i'm a bit worried about what we'll talk about and stuff.

4) i think i'd have to kiss her on the first date to avoid her thinking i don't like her or i'm not confident enough. what's the best time to do this?

sorry for all the questions, but i'm almost completely new to this. thanks in advance.

1. You're a guy, she's a girl. You two are hanging out alone. I'm pretty sure you don't have to use the word date, it's basically implied.

2. I discourage taking a girl to the movies, especially on a first date because you aren't able to talk to the girl. Take her somewhere fun like bowling, you old elementary school playground, etc, etc.

3. Just vibe with her man. Don't be stuck in your head. If you're in the moment you won't have to worry about that. If you really are scared and want a few topics to talk about there's a good list here.
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4. You'll know when the time is right. The only thing you need to worry about is to be continuously escalating. You can't expect to go from not touching her to making out with her.
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This is a good guide to follow that'll teach you the basics of touching and how to escalate it.

Good luck, I know you got this shit in the bag, and if you don't, fuck it, as extra said there's plenty of fish in the sea.

[secret]

i like his idea about your old elementary school playground, there so much to do, you can have fun act stupid and it a pretty fun date, Ive done that with my gf, Ive also cooked for her and talked while i cooked and though it doesn't sound like a big thing but joking around with her while you cook, is a lot of fun,*only cook if you can cook* go for a walk in the park dates aren't rocket science, im sure you can figure something out,

honestly though if it's the first time hanging out in awhile, i wouldn't move to fast, personal experience has shown me it can do more harm, a few kisses here and there are good, but dint escalate a little at a time, + your freshmen take it slow way better that way

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Mar 22, 2010 21:20:07 GMT -5 secret said:

honestly though if it's the first time hanging out in awhile, i wouldn't move to fast, personal experience has shown me it can do more harm, a few kisses here and there are good, but dint escalate a little at a time, + your freshmen take it slow way better that way

I agree.
I felt like I should've added that, but now I guess I don't ;D

[johnwarner]

Women are generally impressed by men who have taken some effort over their appearance. Pay attention to the basics such as shaving, ironing your shirt and smelling nice without drowning yourself in aftershave.Women have a keen eye for shoes, so make sure yours are polished!

[johnsmith23687]

We know First impression is last impression.Girls always want a right effort and complete support from the boys.If you care of her than she has to impressed from you.If you tell some in the favour of her than she also impress with her.Gifts which she likes is also perform important role in the first date.You have to give her some thing different to impress her from your personality.

[pollpitter]

If You Want To Go On the Date With the Girl then You Have to Follow Some Tips.First of all Give The Some Chocolates to Her When You Will Meet Her.Always Say Good Things about Her then her Friend.Always Comes With the Gift Which She Like Most.You can Give Teddy Bear and some Love Show pieces Etc.There are So many Other things are for the Date Such as Choose the Place as per her Choice.Always Do the Praise For Her Each and Every Style,Clothes and Also of Her Smile.

[RMO]

foreign troll?

[Validus]

+ one to araons idea of elementary school playground..

I took the girl I'm seeing to my old school ( from YEARS ago) because it was A) close to her house
B) I wanted to go back ..

(this was before I saw your post)..

It can be fun, because if your leading the interaction (which you should ;-D )

you can talk about old times and other shit you had there

[SamethP]

1. It's a date, she was being kinky, you're in, stop stressing.

2. Movies are a no, no until you're kino with her is high enough that you two cuddle in the movies (insta make out sesh). Take her bowling, old school, putt putt, anywhere fun [BESIDES THE MOVIES!!!!]

3. The fact that you haven't seen her in forever should spark a billion topics to talk about (how have you been? hows the new school? are you still a dork? etc)

4. Doesn't have to be a kiss. If you kino properly she will stare at you willing with all her might that you lean in and gracefully shove your tongue down her throat hahaha....

Let us know how it goes