6 pack vs Bulking up

[Le Dude]

I can admit it was indeed worded wrong. I was in a rush and it was early in the morning, fresh out of looking in the mirror at how much of an Adonis I really am.....T_T. Sarcasm aside, I could have worded it better, but I am quite aware of my ego, I like it as it is, thank you. It has served me well thus far.

Perhaps a more Aaron-friendly version would be: The girls I know like all types of bodies but more often than not the ones they describe to me as "scrumptuous" have muscle that is visible while they still have their clothing draped over their bodies. It is all fine and dandy to have a six-pack but if the rest of the body is wiry or something similar it does as much good as simply being slim. That does not mean you have to look like The Situation. No siree, but a nice, suggesting frame is a plus. But that's just me. Perhaps where you live girls have different tastes. Girls always have different tastes, even in a city. Simply form your body how you wish it to be, do not stress.

I believe this pleases you Aaron. I'd edit my post, but I didn't feel like signing in then, and I do not now either.

[Eastcoast]

Apr 15, 2010 13:45:24 GMT -5 @aaron4prez said:

Apr 15, 2010 13:28:31 GMT -5 @Le Dude said:

Really? I find that extremely hard to believe. Does he wear nothing but hoodies, because that's the only way I can see his body not attracting girls. Obviously its not his body that is the reason why girls aren't all over him. I know plenty of skinny fuckers who have great abs and guess what? The girls fucking love it. This is personal experience talking here.

Yeah i gotta agree with you here. Im also talking from personal experience and they love it. Its a definite bonus of being skinny. You cant really show a 6 pack off though unless your shirtless so i would say having some good arms is better.

im not even gonna touch the other part though haha

[Le Dude]

@the quote matt quoted that I didn't catch before

No. He doesn't only wear hoodies. His girlfriend enjoys the fact he's got one of those bodies, but that was only after they started dating.

This goes back to girls having prefrences. It doesn't matter what you or I think...a hot chick may think super fat guys are irresistible. I've met some that think so. How they manage under that is a discussion for another date, preferrably on an empty stomach. It also depends on YOUR prefrence. The girls I am attracted to are attracted to my body type. The girls you may like might be like "ugh" to me. That also applies to my friend. He got a girl I deemed attractive based on his well-honed game, not his body.

That being said, its best to work on your actual game while making incremental progress on everything else. Then after you've gotten your inner and outer game proper, then its time to go "Well, time to decide if I wanna look like I belong on Jersey Shore or the Triathalon"

Speaking from a functional perspective, a lean body is more useful, it is faster among other things. But blah.

[darkpwns]

Honestly, here I think you guys are both at fault.

Dude for being a bit self absorbed in the original post. Aaron for being narrow minded. Reasoning: Picture of Brad Pitt from Fight Club and being so adamant that all women find that body alluring.

Honestly, all he gave was his opinion. He said if you are a stick and have a six pack it means nothing, which previous posts also validated. He also gave his opinion on the original topic which is what the OP is actually asking. This is not debate central but a place for people to have better love lives. Debates solve nothing.

I'm not giving in to the whole "You rage on me because I am an Anon!" thing, but if tough love was your goal a simple "Get over yourself" works much better in such situations.

Either way, he seems apologetic, so we can move on.

@op: If you really want to know what girls you are attracted to like....just ask them. There's a way to be indirect about it if you're clever. Its better than asking around here. Everything here is theory unless it is a field report. There are no girls on this forum.

EDIT: Having LJBF girls is an awesome source of information. A certain body type may not LOOK good on you, and with LJBF girls you don't have to worry about being indirect. You can just go in and ask "Hey, I'm kind of stuck on trying to bulk up or getting ripped, which way do you think would look best on me"

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Apr 15, 2010 16:13:20 GMT -5 darkpwns said:

Honestly, here I think you guys are both at fault.

Dude for being a bit self absorbed in the original post. Aaron for being narrow minded. Reasoning: Picture of Brad Pitt from Fight Club and being so adamant that all women find that body alluring.

Honestly, all he gave was his opinion. He said if you are a stick and have a six pack it means nothing, which previous posts also validated. He also gave his opinion on the original topic which is what the OP is actually asking. This is not debate central but a place for people to have better love lives. Debates solve nothing.

I'm not giving in to the whole "You rage on me because I am an Anon!" thing, but if tough love was your goal a simple "Get over yourself" works much better in such situations.

Either way, he seems apologetic, so we can move on.

@op: If you really want to know what girls you are attracted to like....just ask them. There's a way to be indirect about it if you're clever. Its better than asking around here. Everything here is theory unless it is a field report. There are no girls on this forum.

EDIT: Having LJBF girls is an awesome source of information. A certain body type may not LOOK good on you, and with LJBF girls you don't have to worry about being indirect. You can just go in and ask "Hey, I'm kind of stuck on trying to bulk up or getting ripped, which way do you think would look best on me"

Narrow-minded? I'm narrow-minded? I never said that every girl finds Brad Pitt's Tyler Durden "alluring" and I never disagreed with Le Dude's opinion, but I definitely disagree with his way of giving his opinion. I said earlier in this thread that girls have different preferences, yet I'm still narrow-minded. All I was saying was that girls DO in fact find, in this case Tyler Durden, attractive whereas Le Dude basically said no girl would touch him with a 10 foot pole, but no I'm supposedly the narrow-minded person here.

...I guess I need to work on my ego too

But I know we can all agree on that great game is more important than the perfect body.

[darkpwns]

The point is that he never said that. He said in his opinion Achilles looked better than Tyler Durden, which is slightly gay, but opinion. Who he said girls wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole is someone like........ummmm.....well you know those fast metabolism guys.

So here, misunderstanding of Dude's post (when someone starts talking about themselves it is best to throw that in the opinion bin) painted you as narrow-minded. While in your eyes Dude'd be the narrow minded one. Now I know why Romeo ended up killing himself. Misunderstandings suck.

And I agree on the last point.


= Watagatapitusberry.

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Apr 15, 2010 16:41:57 GMT -5 darkpwns said:

The point is that he never said that. He said in his opinion Achilles looked better than Tyler Durden, which is slightly gay, but opinion. Who he said girls wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole is someone like........ummmm.....well you know those fast metabolism guys.

So here, misunderstanding of Dude's post (when someone starts talking about themselves it is best to throw that in the opinion bin) painted you as narrow-minded. While in your eyes Dude'd be the narrow minded one. Now I know why Romeo ended up killing himself. Misunderstandings suck.

And I agree on the last point.


= Watagatapitusberry.

I fail to see how that makes someone narrow-minded but to each his own I suppose

[darkpwns]

That's actually very obvious.

I categorize people that do not accept other opinions as narrow-minded. Since you actually had misunderstood the post that makes it just an epic fail. Now had you actually been like "Oh, this jackass' opinions do not match my own...RAWR" then you'd be truly narrow-minded. But I get to reserve judgement due to it being a misunderstanding.

If you hadn't misunderstood his post, you wouldn't have posted something that I thought was narrow-minded but would've been like "Grow up" or something similar, in which case I can not fault you.

I'm pretty fucked up right now. The post you quoted makes more sense than this one, you're just reading it wrong.

To make it make more sense to you, you can add in "but you might not be" after "painted you as narrow-minded"

[RMO]

I love not giving a fuck! jesus, its pretty simple

le dude: if you were such a super fly mother fucker why would you bother posting anymore then,
'in my opinion, and my own experiences, I found that building your arms, shoulders, back, and legs are more important then building you abs, also a lean look is preferable then some beefy guy with a bustling 6 pack.

what everybody else said was of no consequence, except maybe matt's opinion post, and maybe that different girls like different body types. and misunderstanding sucks

with a exercise routine you could build your entire body up, get a good diet, get a plan on working out,

right now im heavily cut but im a scrawny fucker so Ive been working on my arms primarily only becuase my abs to me are fine.

[Deleted]

See the thing is, I agree with his opinion on what attracts women. I suppose I never voiced my opinion on that.

Le Dude: You are right in the fact that being jacked can attract women.

There.

I never disagreed with or challenged his opinon that Troy Brad Pitt was more likely to get more female attention than Tyler Durden Brad Pitt.

I definitely disagreed that women don't like skinny guys because well, as you put it, that's narrow-minded. Plenty of girls like skinny guys.

I misunderstood nothing.

The only I didn't like about his post was how his ego is in control of him.

I suppose I could've handled that part better, but I didn't and I can't change that so oh well.

[darkpwns]

Being an Anon allowed him to act like:

No consequence, really. It doesn't matter if people on the net think you're a lame if nobody knows you. Now that he's signed up he should be....more....chill?

At least he wasn't acting like Kanye West. That's a plus.

@tg: Dude, you're epic. I resent that though. I'm a super fly mother fucker and I post all ze time


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Now, to let the cat out of the bag. Le Dude is actually my friend, he's not really a PUA, but I've been teaching him about this stuff...sort of like a...information store....? Idea receptacle? Either way, he was just trolling. Treat him without bias as a normal newcomer when he actually begins posting seriously. He isn't "jacked" he's got a skater body, kind of like me...also, no harm no foul Aaron. I just felt like giving you shit. Even on a troll, only your dad's got the right to give "tough love"

[Deleted]

I'm at fault too though, I gotta work on my ego

I shouldn't care, but it really bugs the shit out of me when people call me narrow-minded.

Ah well, at least canadiankid knows what physically attracts women now

[darkpwns]

Apr 15, 2010 20:08:34 GMT -5 @aaron4prez said:

I'm at fault too though, I gotta work on my ego

I shouldn't care, but it really bugs the shit out of me when people call me narrow-minded.

Ah well, at least canadiankid knows what physically attracts women now

You didn't read the hidden text did you...

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I did which is why I said I'm also at fault.

I shouldn't let my pride control me like that, especially if you're just trolling.

[Johnny Bravo]

I think your all being bitches. Stop bitching over what you THINK girls like. OR what YOU think your ego is like. You are biased for everything you say. Get other people to say it.

Go fucking out and ask a girl what she likes, get facts and come back. Don't bitch about opinions. Thats gay.