Inner Game stumbling blocks

[bash]

If there is one sticking point in my Game it's definitly my inner game problems.

Girls have never been an easy thing for me. In fact I was so scared of girls that I didn't even try to get girls until about a year ago when I discovered the Seduction Community.

However my inner games issues are still holding me back from becoming the Dynamite Lady's Man that I know I can be!

#1 My biggest inner game problem is that I tend to ignore girls that I'm attracted. I feel like if I pay any kind of attention to them, they will think I'm needy and if I try to talk to them the will shut me down.

#2 Secondly I have a tendacy to disqualify girls automatically. I begin to think "She can't be single" or "Shes with her friends/family, she doesn't want me bothering her". (This has screwed me over plenty of times).\

#3 My girlfriend of five months broke up with me recently, so my game is very very rusty and my ego took a real bruising.

I greatly appreciate any and all advice.

Thanks for the help

[Jenkinz]

hmm sounds like you have some self confidence issues my friend. I was much the same when i was 15 and i fell in love and she broke my heart. Im now nearly 18 and what i used to make myself confident again in a way was picking up, without the picking up. Basically try this, try using natural game (not sure how well others go at it), i pretty much am cocky funny with everyone, even guys and people im not meant to be funny with. It has gotten me a whole "fun to be with" kind of reputation and i didnt use my skills to "get" chicks. My confidence boosting was just having fun with girls, not TRYING to get them, just having fun and being a friend and not worrying if i would score. Sure i went on a humungous dry spell but in that dry spell i managed to regain all self confidence and now i have an inner game to be envied and i can basically approach any girl or talk to any girl and have them laughing and having fun.

Really its quite simple. Become the fun one. Become the person everyone wants to be friends with and then you'll find you have no inner problems and girls will start falling for you, literally.

Goodluck man, getting over a relationship is never easy and especially in the situation your in. Dont treat time rashly, just take your time and build your confidence man.