Post by sleeky on Apr 8, 2010 15:11:55 GMT -5
Yo.
My story.
Well, as I remember, Ive been a pretty social kid in my younger ages, I played sports, was friends with the "popular" kids, even had a few girlfriends(lol) in the middle school days, but then by the end of grade 7 something started going wrong. I got bullied, or at least thats what I thought back then, now I know different, but that turned me into a much more shy and introverted person. I stopped going out, started playing computer games, all the good stuff...
Then, highschool hit. Grade 9. Woohoo. I thought everything would change. But I didnt do anything, so obviously, nothing changed...grade 10 hit, I decided fuck this, and I made a few good friends. These guys, they didnt have much success with women, just your AFC, but they went out to parties, had fun, did things OTHER than play computer games
Grade 10 changed my life. Me knowing these people, transitioned into me knowing more and more people as I got peer pressured into going out to parties(I was shy), and I started to party. At the start, we were the guys that got wasted and did not get any chicks, just those drunken bastards rolling around on the floor punching things. Oh, those were the days...
Haha, but anyways, after that, I met a good buddy of mine. He was, and still is, a pimp. He is a "natural". By this time, I've only probably made out a maybe a whopping 2 times in my life, and I always feared when the conversation turned to girls because fuck, I couldnt talk about something I didnt know about! But this buddy of mine, he became my role model. I was like damn, hes getting laid every week, and hes in grade 10! So I tried to "pickup", and obviously failed. I thought "girls suck! they hate me", but then one day, I searched google, and came across some "pickup forums".
Oh. Thats when EVERYTHING changed. I became addicted to reading material on pickup. Video games? Fuck that. Tv? Nah. School work? Who needs that shit(bad idea btw. Do your work boys!). I read posts, ebooks, watched videos, I was a machine(another tip - dont read too much information. It will confuse you, keep you in your head), and now I thought I was the shit. So I tried again, and had mild success. I made out with a random girl at a party! Yes! IM A PIMP.
Right? Wrong. I still failed alot, I was still scared to talk to girls, I still thought they were higher status than me.
Grade 11 hit. I began to mature. I began to realize what the hidden message in alot of the material was, I began to realize lines and stories can only get you so far.
Now that Im nearing the end of grade 11, I feel like I have accomplished many things. I grasp many of the concepts of "pickup" that actually work, I realize what it takes to get a woman attracted to you, and how to keep this up. There is different game for different places, be it clubs, highschool, parties, everything is different, but at the same time similar. Seduction is not about putting on your "player" persona, you have to BE a player, you have to ACT like a player, you have to FEEL like a player. - I, by the way, dont really like the term player. - Sure, knowing some lines will help you keeping up conversation, will help you feel more confident, but if you want REAL results, you need to change many things about yourself. Society has programmed us to be AFC, we have to get rid of this programming, and live how we are supposed to!
Anyways, this is getting to long, and I am rambling. I hope what I wrote made some kind of sense, and I am happy to have found a forum dedicated to highschool students. I'll try and help out as much as I can, Ill for sure get some posts up helping the newbies go in the right direction.
My story.
Well, as I remember, Ive been a pretty social kid in my younger ages, I played sports, was friends with the "popular" kids, even had a few girlfriends(lol) in the middle school days, but then by the end of grade 7 something started going wrong. I got bullied, or at least thats what I thought back then, now I know different, but that turned me into a much more shy and introverted person. I stopped going out, started playing computer games, all the good stuff...
Then, highschool hit. Grade 9. Woohoo. I thought everything would change. But I didnt do anything, so obviously, nothing changed...grade 10 hit, I decided fuck this, and I made a few good friends. These guys, they didnt have much success with women, just your AFC, but they went out to parties, had fun, did things OTHER than play computer games
Grade 10 changed my life. Me knowing these people, transitioned into me knowing more and more people as I got peer pressured into going out to parties(I was shy), and I started to party. At the start, we were the guys that got wasted and did not get any chicks, just those drunken bastards rolling around on the floor punching things. Oh, those were the days...
Haha, but anyways, after that, I met a good buddy of mine. He was, and still is, a pimp. He is a "natural". By this time, I've only probably made out a maybe a whopping 2 times in my life, and I always feared when the conversation turned to girls because fuck, I couldnt talk about something I didnt know about! But this buddy of mine, he became my role model. I was like damn, hes getting laid every week, and hes in grade 10! So I tried to "pickup", and obviously failed. I thought "girls suck! they hate me", but then one day, I searched google, and came across some "pickup forums".
Oh. Thats when EVERYTHING changed. I became addicted to reading material on pickup. Video games? Fuck that. Tv? Nah. School work? Who needs that shit(bad idea btw. Do your work boys!). I read posts, ebooks, watched videos, I was a machine(another tip - dont read too much information. It will confuse you, keep you in your head), and now I thought I was the shit. So I tried again, and had mild success. I made out with a random girl at a party! Yes! IM A PIMP.
Right? Wrong. I still failed alot, I was still scared to talk to girls, I still thought they were higher status than me.
Grade 11 hit. I began to mature. I began to realize what the hidden message in alot of the material was, I began to realize lines and stories can only get you so far.
Now that Im nearing the end of grade 11, I feel like I have accomplished many things. I grasp many of the concepts of "pickup" that actually work, I realize what it takes to get a woman attracted to you, and how to keep this up. There is different game for different places, be it clubs, highschool, parties, everything is different, but at the same time similar. Seduction is not about putting on your "player" persona, you have to BE a player, you have to ACT like a player, you have to FEEL like a player. - I, by the way, dont really like the term player. - Sure, knowing some lines will help you keeping up conversation, will help you feel more confident, but if you want REAL results, you need to change many things about yourself. Society has programmed us to be AFC, we have to get rid of this programming, and live how we are supposed to!
Anyways, this is getting to long, and I am rambling. I hope what I wrote made some kind of sense, and I am happy to have found a forum dedicated to highschool students. I'll try and help out as much as I can, Ill for sure get some posts up helping the newbies go in the right direction.
