GET HER ATTENTION!

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

Sye:
IOD: cocky funny, negs, false disqualifier, etc.
IOI: DHV, Smile, etc.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

teasing and cocky funny is basicly the defintion of negging

[perceverance]

Ok well this is the part I always get stuck on, on an earlier post you said that I shouldn't expect the girl to come over so I could "game" her and now you said that i'm seeking her approval too much. How do i balance it so that im trying to talk to her but am not trying to seek her approval?


Alright so teasing is just a very light neg that makes her know that you are joking around but im confused on cocky funny. What mentality should I have when im being cocky\funny? Should i have the mentality that im acting like im cocky but in a funny way and in a way that she realizes that im joking? and what do you mean by cold reading?

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

yup you should be cocky but be obvious that you're joking. that's the way to do it in highschool
OH!!! and you can later calibrate by giving her a chance to show value and be cocky funny back (witch is called flirting) Example: " I am happy"
her: "why?"(hook)
you: cause I am soo awesome, has that ever happened to you(this is what I mean)
her: haha yeah!!
you: "Omg you are so cocky you want me to beat you up (make it obvious you are joking)
her: "haha bring it on!"

[perceverance]

alright but what about when you said that i shouldn't expect her to come over so i could "game" her but then after you said that I was seeking her approval and trying to talk to her too much, how do i balance this?

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

with callibration look it up