Socrates
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Post by Socrates on May 4, 2010 16:38:16 GMT -5
I desperatly need a girl for prom date and to be honost i dont really want one but everyone has a prom date so i dont want to look like a looser. the reason y i dont really want a prom date is because i dont really have anyone in mind that I like...Idont want to just take a girl to prom who i dont care bout cause il remember dis day and i dont want to waste my time with her if i dont care bout her...i cud be dancin wit other girls lol.
Anyways, i was chillin in the caf with my looser guy friends (play cards all the time...no girls loosers pretty much but i dont know where else to sit) and then i saw this hot girl walk by when lunch bell rang to go to class. Shes a grade 11 im grade 12 but she was finee. hb8.5 by looks and style.
I dont know her but 2 of my friends know her because shes hispanic and they have her in their spanish class. They said shes single rite now.
I dont know what to do , how do i get a girl like dis? Do I just approach her tell her my name ask hers (isnt that creepy?). What are some tips. She is fine and i wud make my cool guy firends jelious ( one friend is a natural n talks soo much bout how much g's he gets..but this new girl i see is way hotter.)
Shes the type of girl whos popular looking i think, because shes soo pretty n hot. To be honost i dont feel im at her level.
what can I do ? im slightly below average looking and have never successfully pickedup a girl b4. only 1 gf b4 so i suck balls. Should i practice on hb5's b4 i go to her?
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Socrates
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Post by Socrates on May 18, 2010 21:25:58 GMT -5
alright thanks for the reply. yea i feel im making much mistakes by putting women on the pedstool higher than me.
But its different when i actually talk to the girl. When I talk to a girl I always am confident and dont care just go with the flow but sitll i have no sucess with women. I dont get much compliance from any girl that shows affection for me.
I dont know whats wrong. My game cant b that bad....I jus think its my looks thats my only conclusion, that my looks are below average and therefore i cant get girls even with good game.
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Sye~
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Post by Sye~ on May 19, 2010 10:38:57 GMT -5
That doesn't matter. Because deep down your inner game is telling you otherwise, when you're in the conversation you're basically putting up an act - and you will crack to her tests, and you might even be sending out that weak vibe, and sending too much attention. You SERIOUSLY need to work on your inner game.
Its lacking majorly. The fact that you blamed your looks is a BIG NO NO. A girl cannot control her attraction to a man. No matter how ugly. Look at Savoy, he's the ugliest guy I've ever seen, yet he owns Love Systems, and was up there with the big dogs like Mystery.. probably still is. O-o
Its not about just going with the flow. Thats normal AFC behavior. You need to understand that you're better then these girls. You don't need them, but they need you. You need to understand what your weaknesses are and work on them. You need to set some goals, and gain some inspiration and begin working on your skills as a PUA.
Imagine how wonderful everything could be if you put some dedication in your innergame, then your attraction phase. Imagine how happy you'll be. Now imagine how painful it is right now for you. How unfulfilled you feel, and if you never get good at this. Imagine the sadness/disappointment you feel sometimes alone. Imagine having to jerk off on Saturday nights alone instead. Think about where you're going, and where you could be. Use that pain to push you into working on your inner game - because one day you'll achieve that happiness. Alway As think about how amazing you are, and how great everyone will soon see you as. As well as reminding yourself the sorrow if you give up, and don't push forward for change.
Start with your inner game. I believe "Secrets of the Alpha Man", and Grapes PUA E-book of 2009(links in his signature) are very good e-books to help you build that inner confidence.
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Jun 8, 2010 1:39:00 GMT -5
Just go for it man. Talk to her, dont use a lame opener like "hi, my name is ______" because you are right, she will get creeped out or not interested. Instead, use a unique opener that will get her attention, just take the plunge and never go in with the mindset that she is better than you, because she is not. CONFIDENCE! this is super important, if you fake having confidence, it will eventually come to you naturally and you will BE CONFIDENT without even trying. I know this from experience. Just go for it not only for the results but to get experience with girls. Good luck.
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