Post by RMO on May 6, 2010 14:43:26 GMT -5
Alrighty I want to throw around a concept for you guys to think about.
Y'know crazy people walking down the street muttering to themselves? Well everybody actually talks to themselves the only difference is we do it in our heads. The thing is that little voice has been with you for so long you think that its you. It is the thing inside you that creates you comfort zone, it drains your confidence, it makes you life an intolerable hell, and you think that it is you.
I have been trying to find enlightenment in my life, and on this road I have found the truth of ego, and confidence but more importantly happiness.
Why are you a pick up artist or learning how to be a pickup artist? Spend a min and think about it. Are you lonely? Do you just want to get laid? Have trouble relating to people? But think about the reason, and more importantly thinking of the purpose of the reason.
Personally I was thrown into the community by a combination of fate and having the right father. I never had any issues with girls but I had difficulty dealing with teenagers, or stupid people in general, becuase of my upbringing so I decided to learn PUA so I could actually deal with the world. I did this to further my own happiness.
And until recently thats how all my decisions were made, a hedonistic quality I know I know, but since I was raised without God or any other strong unifying purpose I always made decisions in favor of what would promote my happiness.
But enlightenment is different, enlightenment is disregarding the ego, to stop thinking about the past and future to be in the now, with nothing clouding you mind. This is state, your PUA instincts don't require thought and anybody whose successfully run game, natuarlly anyway, can feel that flow and vibe in thier very body, at any given moment they can feel the separate ties and tethers that lay between people. State is like a goddamn super power, you are fully confident, an in control and your ego is silent.
In order for happiness to exist you must know pain, you must have contrast. Whereas enlightenment is above happiness, it is above pain, it is peace. To be in the Now, to be in state. I do not mean to say to drop all your goals, or forget that you still owe money to the bank or any of that. I want you to realize that you re in control, and that you are not tied to time, you are above it, and life is just a series of experiences experienced in the Now.
understand that happiness is just an emotion and as good as it is, emotions are just the body reacting to the ego, try to drop the ego, try to become more then yourself, and let this aura of calm exude from your personality. for anybody who uses the mystery method it is perfect example of the ghost.
if you want to find out how to calm your body instantly and reach state any time you want then I whole heartdley recommend reading the power of now. I don't care how good of a PUA you think you are, just take a moment out of your day and try to read this book.
cl.ly/nEa
Y'know crazy people walking down the street muttering to themselves? Well everybody actually talks to themselves the only difference is we do it in our heads. The thing is that little voice has been with you for so long you think that its you. It is the thing inside you that creates you comfort zone, it drains your confidence, it makes you life an intolerable hell, and you think that it is you.
I have been trying to find enlightenment in my life, and on this road I have found the truth of ego, and confidence but more importantly happiness.
Why are you a pick up artist or learning how to be a pickup artist? Spend a min and think about it. Are you lonely? Do you just want to get laid? Have trouble relating to people? But think about the reason, and more importantly thinking of the purpose of the reason.
Personally I was thrown into the community by a combination of fate and having the right father. I never had any issues with girls but I had difficulty dealing with teenagers, or stupid people in general, becuase of my upbringing so I decided to learn PUA so I could actually deal with the world. I did this to further my own happiness.
And until recently thats how all my decisions were made, a hedonistic quality I know I know, but since I was raised without God or any other strong unifying purpose I always made decisions in favor of what would promote my happiness.
But enlightenment is different, enlightenment is disregarding the ego, to stop thinking about the past and future to be in the now, with nothing clouding you mind. This is state, your PUA instincts don't require thought and anybody whose successfully run game, natuarlly anyway, can feel that flow and vibe in thier very body, at any given moment they can feel the separate ties and tethers that lay between people. State is like a goddamn super power, you are fully confident, an in control and your ego is silent.
In order for happiness to exist you must know pain, you must have contrast. Whereas enlightenment is above happiness, it is above pain, it is peace. To be in the Now, to be in state. I do not mean to say to drop all your goals, or forget that you still owe money to the bank or any of that. I want you to realize that you re in control, and that you are not tied to time, you are above it, and life is just a series of experiences experienced in the Now.
understand that happiness is just an emotion and as good as it is, emotions are just the body reacting to the ego, try to drop the ego, try to become more then yourself, and let this aura of calm exude from your personality. for anybody who uses the mystery method it is perfect example of the ghost.
if you want to find out how to calm your body instantly and reach state any time you want then I whole heartdley recommend reading the power of now. I don't care how good of a PUA you think you are, just take a moment out of your day and try to read this book.
cl.ly/nEa