If a girl asks me for a piece of gum...

[Soop]

should I give her a piece of gum? Flat out say no? Give it to her but in a "special" sort of way? I get asked quite often for gum and I want to know what the best way to handle the situation is. Thanks!

[Sye~]

May 11, 2010 15:39:58 GMT -5 Soop said:

should I give her a piece of gum? Flat out say no? Give it to her but in a "special" sort of way? I get asked quite often for gum and I want to know what the best way to handle the situation is. Thanks!

I usually take out a piece of gum, then eat it myself teasing her.

Then out of the blue one other day I might offer gum to her.

Then another day I'll say no again.

[Soop]

May 11, 2010 15:55:38 GMT -5 Sye~ said:

May 11, 2010 15:39:58 GMT -5 Soop said:

should I give her a piece of gum? Flat out say no? Give it to her but in a "special" sort of way? I get asked quite often for gum and I want to know what the best way to handle the situation is. Thanks!

I usually take out a piece of gum, then eat it myself teasing her.

Then out of the blue one other day I might offer gum to her.

Then another day I'll say no again.

Hmm good idea, but why are you doing this exactly? I'm not sure I understand the big picture.

[Johnny Bravo]

As any other PUA would say, make her jump through a small hoop before you give her what you want.

"Say please!"

"Asking nicely!"

"Gotta do something naughty for it"

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

^ correct
and another thing how is this important I am not questioning you it's just I am wondering

[Soop]

May 15, 2010 13:22:50 GMT -5 Luis the awesomest of awesomes said:

^ correct
and another thing how is this important I am not questioning you it's just I am wondering

Oh, well basically I find that if I fix a bunch of small things, the bigger picture will be more clear. And this is a question I hear A LOT.

[dionysus]

hahaha, do first ask later . . . if you don't get it before