Relationship? Or Not?

[Chris]

so.

I've been seeing this girl for about two months now. She is
basically in love with me and i no doubt have the majority of the
"power" in the relationship. We've had a couple bad fights
cuz i have a short fuse. She's not ridiculously hot but she's
definitely cute and i like her.

do you guys think i should make her my gf? i've been thinking
about this a while now.

If i do, it'll be fun, i'll probably have lots of sex which will help get
me experience to "satisfy" women, i'll know how to handle
ltr's better, etc.

here's the cons tho:
-i have to leave for college in late august, dunno how things
would play out, she'd still be in high school
-i wouldnt be able to hook up with other girls, cheating is not an
option for me.
-she may or may not change if i decided to committ to her. idk if
this would actually happen, just a thought.

thoughts?

[wespeezy]

I was actually in the similiar situation with my ex girlfriend.

She was a junior and I was a senior and we would have to break up because of college.

If you guys date or don't date, theres still gonna be that break up feelings. One of my good buddys on my lacrosse team just started dating this girl, but the fact is that they will both be going to college in two different states, in less than fourth months. So it kinda makes you question their relationship.

Like i said earlier, you both obviously have feelings and dating or not dating the seperation will hurt.( by the way, if the idea of staying in town for school for her crosses your mind, get the idea out of your fucking head ASAP!)

Im not sure if this will help or not but this is my thoughts. If your actually together, it will hurt more to break up come fall semester. Why not just do all the things a couple would do? Like be exclusive, go on fun dates, watch movies, SEX etc.

But then again i dont know the girl. She may put more of an emphasis on actually wanting to be YOUR girl friend.

[Chris]

she definitely wants/ wanted to be my gf.
now we got in a huge fight and things are rough, but u know
about that Wes.

I think if things start going smoothly again, i will make her my
gf. but i simply wont do that right now how things are because
that action is probably motivated by fear of loss.