THE PRIZE

[perceverance]

Alright guys, i'm a little confused on the "your the prize" concept. You're supposed to think that you are the prize and that the girl you are trying to game is supposed to come to you and win you over rather than you chase her around. I think i might be going overboard though, what are your guys's main rules when you are trying to hook up with a girl? do you chase her a bit or completely act like the prize? ALSO, what are your most effective ways on getting social proof or value?

[RMO]

Ok, so the basic idea is most 8-10 girls are always dealing with lots of guys who are attracted to her, they make her the prize and show that they are submissive to her, they out the pussy on a pedestal. But a PUA doesn't view her that way, he sees himself as a prize and women try to play him, they show interest, they interact they actually try, instead of just wait for the guys to try.


There are alot of answers to your last question, for me I just generally act fun, I tell stories, run game, I don't overly show interest and I'm socially calibrated, and I don't let things get to me.And I lead at every chance i get.

[Calli]

It is a good concept, but you can take it too far. This is something I have done in the past, and still do somewhat. You should have the mindset that you are the prize, but if you start to act completely indifferent to girls and brush off their advances too much, they will just assume you are not interested, and give up.

Another thing not to do, (this has happened to me before), is using the fact that you are the prize as an excuse to pussy out. There have been a few times where I could have opened, but I used the excuse "I am the prize, girls will open me". Which never got me anywhere, and because girls are nervous too, you can't just sit back and wait for them to them to come. You still have to put some effort in.