Good way for building comfort & attraction: dreams

[tdod]

Imo, getting a girl to tell you her dreams (and then have you analyze them) is a good technique for comfort and attraction, largely due to the analytical portion of the dream;

Dream analysis is really just a superb form of cold reading. it's advantageous over other forms of cold reading because it allows to make observations about the subconcious motives of a person. This can be done extremely easily once one acquaints himself with the basics of dream analysis and realizes the common struggles of all people.

Further, it also creates great opportunities for open loops and push/pull type things, and also establishes a good metaframe. If you do it well, she starts telling you about all of her dreams; just make sure that she doesn't see you as a tool for therapy.


I posted this b/c i haven't read about this anywhere, and I think it's an extremely easy and powerful technique.

[slyman]

wow, i haven't heard of dream reading, but i could see how it could be very effective both as a dhv as well as comfort. do you have any examples of how to interpret dreams? haha I feel like if I tried this, it would go something like this. HB:" So last night I had this terrifying dream, where I was zip-lining and suddenly the zipline broke and I fell and died!" Me: "Sounds like your scared of zip-lining."
HB: "NO FUCKING SHIT, DUMBASS!"

haha. In other words, how would one interpret dreams beyond the concrete and get into a more analytical interpretation? Just if you could give me some examples, i think that would get the ball rolling.

[Gumby]

Sly, I've used this, and I just try and turn everything into a metaphor.

Falling from a zipline? Easy. Just say that this could mean she's undergoing a lot of stress, at least on the internal side of things, and that she's scared that everything will come undone.

That's just off the top of my head, and I'm half-asleep. Just keep thinking, and you can stall by looking deep and meaningful xD

[slyman]

i see. nevermind not nearly as hard as I thought...i gotta remind myself that what you say doesn't have to mean shit!!! haha palm reading? bullshit...but very cool and a great dhv. dreams seem like along those lines. good shit.

[kyle]

I could do this easily, im good at cold reading + bullshit and its good DHV. When would you use something like this, after isolating or is it more of a group thing? (it just seems gay in a a group, correct me if I'm wrong)

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[timmywimmy]

I think it would be pretty creepy to walk up to a chick and ask her what goes through her head while shes sleeping. Just my 2 cents though

[wespeezy]

I don't know why this is funny but it is^ hahaha

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