Complicated

[perceverance]

Alright guys I have a somewhat complicated situation here. Here is the story, a while back I met a girl when I was barely getting my game together and I think I misunderstood the neg/push pull concept and I think it ended up with her thinking I didn't like her as I might have taking the neg thing too far. The thing is that I know this girl is interested in me and she is like a 8 or 9, she just showered me with IOI's but now it seems like she is trying to avoid me as if avoiding rejection. So a few days ago I messaged her on myspace and she has obviously been online but hasn't responded, what steps should I take or should I just forget her?(I know I could date her if I did something about where I messed up because she DEFINATELY likes me) thanks again guys.

[RMO]

dude your just freaking out, listen most of us have been there. You need to stop dicking around. Do you have her phone number? if so call her, talk for a little bit, build attraction/comfort, get a date, bounce, escalate. If not get the fucking thing or talk to her in person.

[perceverance]

Yea i understand but i think i might of fucked up with this girl, i know she probably likes me still but she avoids me in fear of getting negged again. I would push the relationship but am not sure if i screwed up already.

[nutrick]

one neg won't kill you. act as if nothing's wrong, because there really isn't anything wrong. in the words of tucker max, if she can't take a joke, then fuck her. get her number, talk to her like a normal person, flirt a bit, have a good time, and enjoy yourself. that's what it's all about.

Patrick

[Ari Gold]

Stop being a vag. Seriously dude. Fucking talk to her. IN PERSON. FUCK MYSPACE. If she's in your school/classes. Talk to her. Work it out. Tell her you're sorry or whatever is gonna get her talking to you, then game her. Simple as that.

There are over 6 billion people on this planet. There is ALWAYS going to be a better looking, smarter, cooler girl out there. So fucking stop being a chump and be a player.

[RMO]

let me give you a similar story. I was testing negging a year ago and there was this cute little brunette, id say 7.5-8, I decided to neg the shit out of her, I mean I literally negged for neggings sake, now I know that isn't always the ebst of ideas. So for a few weeks we hung out anf whenever she called me an asshole becuase of the negging I'd just disarm her by either saying shit like 'thank you' or 'Yeah, but at least I'm fun' A few more weeks after that we kinda just stopped hanging out. Then we get back together after like 2 months shes all over my dick. Literally IOI's to a level I never thought possible. So remember negs can blow out lower girls but sometimes unexpected things can happen to those who wait and escalate.