"Hanging out"

[flaxmasterflow]

Recently Im having no problems getting girls (even though I posted a fairly weak complaining post last month) but Im sometimes unsure of the whole lets hang out thing. Like should i just pull the "lets watch a movie" deal or are there more creative options that will make her more interested? Because you have to start the night off somehow...

[Ari Gold]

Chicks wanna hang with you? Do it up. Depending on where and how many people you can do the movie or you can do the let's fuck around and have fun go swimming etc route. It's all based on vibe and feel like anything in The Game.

[zegoni]

I think he's looking for, uhm, whaddaya call 'em? Inviters? Idk. An opener and an invite, 2 in 1.

The "come other to my place and let's be real close while watching some girly movie" is always a success. If you're the cuter/sweeter type, you can say that your pillow is missing her (well, it has a requirement though: she needs to connect with your pillow beforehand. basically, second lay.).
If you're more 'spot on', ask her what she's doing later. she'll say 'nothing'. you'll say "you liar, you're coming over to my place, I'm home alone" or whatever your 'reason' it.

Key thing is: Always have a 'reason'. Just nothing serious. Never anything serious. Hell, "My gold fish just spelled your name in the sand in the bottom of his bowl, come over and see" is a good one, too. And guess what, it doesn't ever matter if theres sand in the bottom of the bowl!
I hope you get my point.

[Ari Gold]

Give them an excuse and they'll hop on your dick like you were Ron Jeremy. Not really but give 'em a valid reason (to validate the fact that they are not whores) and they'll play the game with you. Classics:

-Let's watch a movie!
-Give me a massage
-Hey, I'm fucking cold, let's make like fabric softener and Snuggle™ (Okay don't use that fucking line but you get the picture)

Lol like my target HB chick of interest (lovin' that name, right?) other than my planning to go to fuckin' Europe with her, when she comes back from vacay, she's agreed upon that we: watch a movie of her choice, fuckin' cuddle. Give each other massages, fuckin' sweet. and that we're gonna miss each other (IOI much?)

IT'S THAT SIMPLE. "Hey you're leaving? Awww man. When you get back, let's hang out and watch a movie! I'm gonna miss you:/"

If she even somewhat likes you, you're good-to-go. Anyone will watch a movie, anyone will admit they'll miss someone if they at least have somewhat feelings for them.

[zegoni]

Hm, it's a good one to somewhat plant yourself in her mind when she's leaving for vacation. Hmm. I'm gonna abuse that now that it's summer... Hmmm.

[Ari Gold]

Use my idea, man. I'll bet my next paychecks it's gonna fucking work. For both of us.

[zegoni]

Haha, yeah. I've never planted some kind of deal for her to come home to. Damn, I got lots of textin' to do tomorrow, HAHA! All the girls who're going on vacation this year leaves tomorrow after noon... Yeah, I can make it.
"Hope you'll be fine without me. I really wonder if I can massage you and watch a movie at the same time. We'll see." hmm. Yeah, awesome. +1 dude!

[Ari Gold]

Thanks dude. Just go with the "When you get back, we should deffff hang out! Watch a movie maybe, maybe a massage since you'll be so tiredd..." etc. Being subtle is the easiest way to implant ideas in their mind of what you guys are gonna do. Massages are sexual, but not sexual. A good massage will turn a girl on and the guy, and you'll both get into a sexual state of mind. If she likes you, usually, it goes from massaging to making out fairly quickly.

In terms of just walking around your town and whatnot with girls, just being a flirt is what I do. If there's opportunities to do more (cuddle/swim/skinny dip) and other activities where you can be a badass player, take them. Be a leader.

[zegoni]

The one girl I was all like "AMG I HAVE TO SAY THIS" to... I forgot all about her. Hm. Though she texted me she's looking forward coming home to me. She basically did my work. I remembered 'all' the others though, positive reponse Seems like a busy summer after all..