Hmm what happend to the attraction?

[Socrates]

So there was this nice girl... hb7 atleast and she asked me to come study with her in the library one day. I went and she was showing alot of ioi's . Looking at me alot, talking about personal life etc learning about each other...not really studying. Anyways i didnt really talk to her much after. I talked to her via text messages and i like never approached her agian at school (even tho shes in one of my classes). Her twin sister (a little better looking i might add lol) really is attracted to my best friend and he chops her hard. Always see them together and stuff.

So one time my friend was at her house...(wow hes good.)... and i was texting the girl i wanted about some project. And then he took her phone and started texting me with it. He was saying like " *girlsname* thinks ur cute" and then im like " I know im cute.." and hes like " just joking.. why dont u ask her?". I said " I dont need to ask her what i already know".

Anways i told him i needed to study.. so i stopped texting him . But Im sure she read all that.. i dont know if it shows that im cocky and funny or what but i dont get it.

Last day of normal class comes, i ask her to sign my year book. It was like the first time i approach her in my class and i sat beside her. I tried talkin to her but she was acting weird. She wasnt relaly talking ot me...it was like her attraction was gone or somthing. And what makes it worse is that all she wrote in my year book was " have a good summer, good luck next year" . Out of all my friends , she was the only one to write just that lol. I know i shudnt really care much but im so curious because i was suprised that she out of all people just wrote that.

I wrote on hers " U owe me still have a good summer etc." it was somethin personal only she wud get. What do u think hapend?

Maybe she thought i was not confident because i never approached her?

[ascendancy]

Maybe she felt ignored?

[nutrick]

i wouldn't worry. just keep talking to her like you normally do.

[zegoni]

Call her some day you know she's alone. It seems like she's a bit 'off' when you're physically around - this happens when you mostly text her, because very few of us act the same through text and rl talking. So call her while you're walking the dog or so (it gives a different atmosphere, and a little plus that you're outside at summer actually doing something, lol), and if she lives close ask her to join you. But be sure she knows you'll have fun walking the dog whether or not she'll join you.


Good luck. The few first times it's hard, but it'll be easier. You'll start calling people all the time while walking the dog.

[Socrates]

haha thanks nice idea Zegoni!
Yea Im thinking of calling her sometime just for kicks to see how she wud react.
If only I had a dog

[zegoni]

Well, the dog is just because it's an awesome example.

It could be while you were going to the mall or so, but be sure to make it sound fun - whether or not she'll join. That way you'll invite her to do something funny, but she'll know that even though she might not be able to join, you'll still have fun. That makes you really un-clingy (I figured that would describe it the best ), and as a funny guy who can take care of yourself, too. Besides, you can't really rely on other people to create your fun, that's one of the few things you can only depend on yourself on.