Post by RMO on Jun 24, 2010 21:11:45 GMT -5
Hey everyone,
This has been the evolution of PUA. From a bunch of guys who started hanging around in bars noticing behavioral cues, to mPUA's who coach others by giving them theory and lines to use. Finally reaching the 'natural' phase. I have contention with this wording.
A natural is someone who learned how to interact, and touch, with girls comfortably at an early age so he seems to naturally pick up chicks. Unfortunately this has some implications, leading to issues like not caring about girls as people anymore, also a natural is not a teacher, their just that outlier that gets it on with 80% of the girl population will the AFC's just sit back and watch.
There have been many names for a PUA formed natural leader created by other PUA companies, venusian artist, natural, 20% man, ect ect. I prefer the Renaissance Man because it was originally used to describe great men like leonardo di vinchi, due to their varied interests and not being jack of all trades, but being incredibly talented and skilled in all almost all areas.
Being a Renaissance Man does not easily explain how to get girls so this is how I will describe it.
Its not how you interact its who you are at your core.
I bet all of you have had moments when you forget everything when your in an interaction and you just tried to make something up on the spot, where you inner self is exposed and must fend for it self.
This is how a RA does business all the time, sure they have general guidelines on shit tests and the like but those are internalized. There are a few characteristics I will lay out that you must present at all times.
Leader- This is a given, PUA is based on the tribal alphamale thought process so being a leader is a given. Always lead, be proactive. As well as dominate without being a douche, just always been in control not through fear but through love and respect.
Fun- you are not overly energetic but you always bring positive interaction to people, you dont think about getting laid, you think about giving fun to a vibe.
chill- This is the shortest word to describe the idea that you are unfazed by negative stimulus and you either disregard it, or accept it in order to move past the intrusion and continue giving vibe. you are in your own fun filled world and a few stupid words from a beta mean less then nothing to you.
Honest: don't lie unless its an absurd joke, if your caught in a conflicting situation misinterpret it, go with it, just be honest. Also be sure that everyone else is honest, ask why a girl rejected you respectfully and if your not a dick and you've been honest generally she will tell you.
motivated/expert- This is where you are motivated in your own life, you have other things going on instead of girls, you have bigger fish to fry. Generally these fall under things you are an expert at, be it weightlifting or cooking, just be good at things and want to do them.
Connected- You have many friends, you have girls you dont game, you just stay connected, you seem to know everyone, and if you don't when you walk into a venue begin meeting people and introducing them to total strangers.
Appealing- From being funny to eventually smart with rapport and finally be a sexual being, you fulfill women's desires by naturally escalating this way.
Sure looks, money, health, these can be good but not necessary, sometimes pre-selction is needed but fi you embody all these traits soon you will be pre-selected by the vast amount of girls you hang with.
I'm no master, and i'm always learning, but if this is the only thing you read, in your daily life: be fun, escalate, lead, and generally don't give a fuck about rejection or negativity, the world is your oyster, you can only learn more.
Also if you want to be a true Renaissance Man be sure to self educate and partake in many things, from writing and drawing to long boarding and business. It is generally easier to become a Renaissance Man if you are also a member of the new rich (the 4hr workweek) but you can have a day job and still come off as your own man.
ALSO REMEMBER TO SMILE AND BE OPEN WITH YOU BODY LANGUAGE!
This has been the evolution of PUA. From a bunch of guys who started hanging around in bars noticing behavioral cues, to mPUA's who coach others by giving them theory and lines to use. Finally reaching the 'natural' phase. I have contention with this wording.
A natural is someone who learned how to interact, and touch, with girls comfortably at an early age so he seems to naturally pick up chicks. Unfortunately this has some implications, leading to issues like not caring about girls as people anymore, also a natural is not a teacher, their just that outlier that gets it on with 80% of the girl population will the AFC's just sit back and watch.
There have been many names for a PUA formed natural leader created by other PUA companies, venusian artist, natural, 20% man, ect ect. I prefer the Renaissance Man because it was originally used to describe great men like leonardo di vinchi, due to their varied interests and not being jack of all trades, but being incredibly talented and skilled in all almost all areas.
Being a Renaissance Man does not easily explain how to get girls so this is how I will describe it.
Its not how you interact its who you are at your core.
I bet all of you have had moments when you forget everything when your in an interaction and you just tried to make something up on the spot, where you inner self is exposed and must fend for it self.
This is how a RA does business all the time, sure they have general guidelines on shit tests and the like but those are internalized. There are a few characteristics I will lay out that you must present at all times.
Leader- This is a given, PUA is based on the tribal alphamale thought process so being a leader is a given. Always lead, be proactive. As well as dominate without being a douche, just always been in control not through fear but through love and respect.
Fun- you are not overly energetic but you always bring positive interaction to people, you dont think about getting laid, you think about giving fun to a vibe.
chill- This is the shortest word to describe the idea that you are unfazed by negative stimulus and you either disregard it, or accept it in order to move past the intrusion and continue giving vibe. you are in your own fun filled world and a few stupid words from a beta mean less then nothing to you.
Honest: don't lie unless its an absurd joke, if your caught in a conflicting situation misinterpret it, go with it, just be honest. Also be sure that everyone else is honest, ask why a girl rejected you respectfully and if your not a dick and you've been honest generally she will tell you.
motivated/expert- This is where you are motivated in your own life, you have other things going on instead of girls, you have bigger fish to fry. Generally these fall under things you are an expert at, be it weightlifting or cooking, just be good at things and want to do them.
Connected- You have many friends, you have girls you dont game, you just stay connected, you seem to know everyone, and if you don't when you walk into a venue begin meeting people and introducing them to total strangers.
Appealing- From being funny to eventually smart with rapport and finally be a sexual being, you fulfill women's desires by naturally escalating this way.
Sure looks, money, health, these can be good but not necessary, sometimes pre-selction is needed but fi you embody all these traits soon you will be pre-selected by the vast amount of girls you hang with.
I'm no master, and i'm always learning, but if this is the only thing you read, in your daily life: be fun, escalate, lead, and generally don't give a fuck about rejection or negativity, the world is your oyster, you can only learn more.
Also if you want to be a true Renaissance Man be sure to self educate and partake in many things, from writing and drawing to long boarding and business. It is generally easier to become a Renaissance Man if you are also a member of the new rich (the 4hr workweek) but you can have a day job and still come off as your own man.
ALSO REMEMBER TO SMILE AND BE OPEN WITH YOU BODY LANGUAGE!
