a cocky girlfriend, random mindgame shit

[lolwut]

So i've been dating this girl for a while, and even before we were hooking up she was pretty confident about everything. I knew it was mostly acting, cause she's a shy girl overall and usually sticks to her select group of friends. But back when I was hitting on her and just talking to her i remember one time where I was playing kinda hard to get and she said "I could have you, if i wanted". I was just going back to that, and i was wondering how you guys would respond to that.

Besides that, we always fuck around with each other and when she asks me to do something, i agree to do it as long as she gives me something in return. She'll ask me to take off my glasses or something, and i'll do it but when i tell her to take off her shirt (hehe) she'll hold off on it. I mean it's not like i submit to her every wish, but sometimes i feel as if i give up too easily with silly shit like this. It doesn't bother me really because in the end we just hook up, but i definitely don't want to look as if she can have everything she wants from me if that makes sense. What do you think?

[Gumby]

I think personally, from the example you gave, glasses for a shirt is an unfair trade. They have to be at least sort of balanced.

And be challenging. Don't submit to everything, make her realise you are the prize, not her.

I'm sure veterans will post better stuff but it's what I'd do.

Keep us posted

[perceverance]

if she says that, you could respond with, "and i could have you..IF...i wanted.." i totally came up with that right now hehe. But yeah, just fuck around with her, remember, you must want her less than she wants you.

[zegoni]

TBH, i don't get your problem if it is that you give in too easily, then don't? If you feel she has the power over you, then make her realize you don't. YOU have to keep the frame.