Post by Andrew on Oct 23, 2008 21:47:40 GMT -5
So your talking to this really cool chick, your doing everything right. Your cocky funnying, being Alpha, maybe even a little push pull. Then you go for the number close or the kiss close and BOOM. Shafted.
What HAPPENED?
You probably didnt make your intentions known! As my buddy Chrispb7 put it "we are gonna fuck and you are gonna love it."
A lot of beginners make this mistake, they go with the cocky funny and all that good stuff, but they dont know where to stop with it. Where to change what they are doing.
You need to drop some SOI's (signal of interest/sign of intent) in your game. Otherwise your probably jsut gonna be another dude. An amazing really interesting dude whose attractive and stuff, but not destined to go anywhere.
Try this.
Your walking with this really cool chick, your doing everything right. Your cocky funnying, being Alpha, maybe even a little push pull. Then suddenly you stop everything. You look at her, hold her gaze for awhile, like your staring into her soul. Do some triangular gazing. Then, quietly, and slowly say "you have some flecks of gold in your eyes, i never noticed that." Then go immediatly back to what you were doing. Drives girls CRAZY. Just when they think they have you figured out, you bust out with this deep, something-you-noticed-about-them (which girls love too. If they look good, its not an accident =D) Then you go back to what you were doing and is usual. Something like that. Dont be too corny, but notice something about her. Maybe be a little mysterious.
Another thing you can do is look at their eyes, down at their lips, breathe in deeply, then look back at their eyes and lick your lips a little. All done slowly.
For those of you more inclined to push pull, hold her gaze more, do more triangular gazing, jsut be more overtly sexual about it, Then brush their face and be like "you have an eyelash on your face." This is enormously powerful.
Remember to keep your frame or mindset, whatever one you picked or works best for you, and repeat it in your mind while looking at them. For some reason, they can tell...
If done correctly, all of these will drive sexual tension through the roof.
Mmmmmmm
-Andrew
What HAPPENED?
You probably didnt make your intentions known! As my buddy Chrispb7 put it "we are gonna fuck and you are gonna love it."
A lot of beginners make this mistake, they go with the cocky funny and all that good stuff, but they dont know where to stop with it. Where to change what they are doing.
You need to drop some SOI's (signal of interest/sign of intent) in your game. Otherwise your probably jsut gonna be another dude. An amazing really interesting dude whose attractive and stuff, but not destined to go anywhere.
Try this.
Your walking with this really cool chick, your doing everything right. Your cocky funnying, being Alpha, maybe even a little push pull. Then suddenly you stop everything. You look at her, hold her gaze for awhile, like your staring into her soul. Do some triangular gazing. Then, quietly, and slowly say "you have some flecks of gold in your eyes, i never noticed that." Then go immediatly back to what you were doing. Drives girls CRAZY. Just when they think they have you figured out, you bust out with this deep, something-you-noticed-about-them (which girls love too. If they look good, its not an accident =D) Then you go back to what you were doing and is usual. Something like that. Dont be too corny, but notice something about her. Maybe be a little mysterious.
Another thing you can do is look at their eyes, down at their lips, breathe in deeply, then look back at their eyes and lick your lips a little. All done slowly.
For those of you more inclined to push pull, hold her gaze more, do more triangular gazing, jsut be more overtly sexual about it, Then brush their face and be like "you have an eyelash on your face." This is enormously powerful.
Remember to keep your frame or mindset, whatever one you picked or works best for you, and repeat it in your mind while looking at them. For some reason, they can tell...
If done correctly, all of these will drive sexual tension through the roof.
Mmmmmmm
-Andrew
