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Post by prehistoric on Jul 14, 2010 6:27:54 GMT -5
Now I'm re-reading Badboy Lifestyle, and there are some questions that showed up. In much of the books they say "make emotions to the girl" badboy even says some of the emotions that a "jerk - guy" can AND gives to the girl : "If the jerk is going to give her love, hate, pain, pleasure, adrenaline, anticipation, excitement, all at the same time, she will be in a constant state of excitement." badboy lifestyle
So my question is HOW can I give those emotions ? How can I make her feel the "vibe" in our "relationship" ? How is that happens ?
Also I'm virgin ( ) so if a girl asks how many times I had sex what I should tell her. In fact if we reach to the "action" she will understand everything, or she will think that i'm really fast, of course she will decide that if i'm in fact really fast Is there way to make it slower except drinking ?
Really sorry for bad English.And I'm really thankful to everybody that could and helped me
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Gumby
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Post by Gumby on Jul 14, 2010 8:10:41 GMT -5
By fast and slower, I assume you mean cumming?
Jack off a few times before it and you'll take longer.
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prehistoric
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Post by prehistoric on Jul 14, 2010 8:17:27 GMT -5
What about the other questions they are more important !
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Post by RMO on Jul 14, 2010 15:34:44 GMT -5
You need to understand the core tenets of PUA you are AFC and just giving you some answers in this thread will not help you at all.
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prehistoric
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Post by prehistoric on Jul 14, 2010 16:29:34 GMT -5
The fuck .. you don't even know me, what made you to think, that i'm AFC ?!? I'm asking for something i don't know /understand.That makes me AFC ? And stop pretending to be a great PUA, you think you're cool because you use words like "AFC" well let me tell you somethin', you are not.. So if you are so kind don't write in my threads anymore, ok ?
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Post by RMO on Jul 14, 2010 18:05:32 GMT -5
Im sorry that I offended you, you seem kind of high strung in your responses.
alright. the issue is that your questions are basics, giving emotions are the very basics. The reason you can get girls is you can lead her on an experience.
What im saying is that without being able to directly communicate with you its hard to teach that, it comes with experience in actual events. Sure you could do cold reading or magic or any of those things that add value to you and lead her on an experience but they will be incongruent with who you are.
AFC is a mindset, you need to overcome it, Ive read your other threads, and quite frankly this is a recurring issue. Specific advice cant solve most things. Especially the big one
"So my question is HOW can I give those emotions ? How can I make her feel the "vibe" in our "relationship" ? How is that happens ?"
HOW? well you have to lead her on an experience, by showing her that you are interesting, you take her to new places (physically), you chat her up, you escalate, cold reading, ect ect. The interaction should be fun and you should be in passive control (your not amoging but you lead people almost subconsciously)
Honestly that very question necessitates the need to learn game from a personal view, and not see women as shit, its kind of like your showing her who you are through an experience. I havent read any badboy and I would need to in order to help elaborate for you.
anyway the only reason your getting this response is that your a little conceited. Ive read your posts n the past, and they are all AFC, you have no respect for women, and miss the points of game completely. I dont care if i was the ugliest loser on the planet that does not give you the fucking right to lay me off on a thread, your question is not AFC the thought process necessary to formulate that question is AFC.
So would you kindly calm down and refrain from freaking the fuck out, because i did not insult you, i only said that giving you a specific answer wont change how you think
its the give a man a fish or teach a man to fish kind of thing.
So i wont post on your threads again not because you freaked out like a little girl, but because I have no urge to discuss anything with such a hateful and brash personality.
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Post by Eastcoast on Jul 14, 2010 22:25:39 GMT -5
Dude honestly Prehistoric you can get all worked up over what tommy said to you. But, it is obvious your an afc just by the way you posted this question. You dont have to read any other posts to tell this. If you need that explained heres a little bit.
You would not ask the question of how to make her feel the vibe of your relationship because this is something you quickly learn to pick up on as your developing as a pua.
And if you havnt read anything tommy has wrote, i think its pretty damn fucking good. Is tommy a great PUA? we cant know 100% but from what hes wrote hes much better than you. So theres no need to get all worked up if he called you a afc. Not a big deal, if you werent one you wouldnt freak out because deep down you would know if you were or not. Listen to the advice, chill out, and enjoy life dude.
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prehistoric
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Post by prehistoric on Jul 15, 2010 4:33:08 GMT -5
Dudes, you never saw me not in set neither with friends YOU CAN"T TELL IF I AM AFC before you see me, you don't know what I know. This guy tommy or whatever had even looked at my old threads, have you noticed the date ??No! Why you should do such a thing ? If that matters to you, because it doesn't to me already, English is foreign language to me, so even if there was (i didn't saw such a thing) anything about how to make "her" feel emotions i probably couldn't understand/translate it And stop this "cool guy/PUA" thing, ok ? What the fuck is wrong with you,asketd a simple question, wanted a simple ansewer,no some guy that pretends to be a GREAT "PUA", the fuck it's cool that you will stop writing in my threads
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Post by Sye~ on Jul 15, 2010 8:40:47 GMT -5
-1. You really don't listen. Your lashing out states that you have low self esteem(bad inner game). Do you know what AFC stands for? Average frustrated chump. Do you know what you sound like right now? A frustrated chump. Mr. Virgin, you need an open mind when you come to PUA. If you keep this mindset you're in now.. you'll never change and learn. You're just going to end with an arsenal of unusable information. Anyways... back to my 8 hour English homework.
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Post by Eastcoast on Jul 15, 2010 11:21:47 GMT -5
Dudes, you never saw me not in set neither with friends YOU CAN"T TELL IF I AM AFC before you see me, you don't know what I know. This guy tommy or whatever had even looked at my old threads, have you noticed the date ??No! Why you should do such a thing ? If that matters to you, because it doesn't to me already, English is foreign language to me, so even if there was (i didn't saw such a thing) anything about how to make "her" feel emotions i probably couldn't understand/translate it And stop this "cool guy/PUA" thing, ok ? What the fuck is wrong with you,asketd a simple question, wanted a simple ansewer,no some guy that pretends to be a GREAT "PUA", the fuck it's cool that you will stop writing in my threads Dude im not even gonna bother arguing with you. You got a date congratufuckinglations. That doesnt mean your not a afc. And were not acting like great puas man, this is who we are. If you think im trying to act cool or something then you completely read me wrong. Whatever though, do what you want. Were trying to offer advice and you can take it if you want.
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Post by darkpwns on Jul 15, 2010 13:27:26 GMT -5
1) Prehistoric, you have no right to come at Tommy for what he told you, he was absolutely correct in his assessment of you judging by your responses.
2) We can tell you're an AFC just by "YOU CAN'T TELL IF I AM AFC BEFORE YOU SEE ME, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I KNOW", yes, we can tell, you know why? You're vehemently denying the fact while at the same time showing how low value you are in the form of having self esteem issues. Its the same as that guy getting worked up because somebody doesn't believe he's getting laid. He's probably not getting laid.
3) I got dates when I knew nothing about girls, I had sex too, that doesn't mean I wasn't an AFC. Just because you can get some girls doesn't mean jack shit, its a mindset, not a ticker of how many girls you've fucked. That kind of shit is shallow and holds no value here.
4) Congrats on becoming a specialist Tommy, I haven't been here in forever.
5) We can't tell you how to illicit emotions in a girl, you'd have to do trial and error because we don't speak to you, we type to you. You won't get those magic lines to make a girl feel happy, sad, angry, jealous any of those things. What you need to do is see what illicits emotions in the girls you are generally around and then up the scale. Hell you don't even have to say anything to get girls to feel those emotions, in fact they'd feel them much stronger if you didn't say anything.
6) If you're a virgin just tell the girl you're a virgin, there is nothing wrong with that. Give her a sappy reason for it and she'll eat it up, something like saving it for a chick you felt a connection with. If you bust a nut quickly, that happens on the first round if you don't exercise self control, don't worry you'll be able to make up for it in the second and coming rounds. Whacking off doesn't really help (well it does, but who knows when exactly they are going to be having sex to plan a three shot wank session).
Now, go practice more.
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Post by owl on Jul 16, 2010 3:51:01 GMT -5
While it is impossible to judge one fully when on the internet, it is as easy as tying your shoe to make an educated guess as to one's character. Ex. Prodigy responded with maturity, whereas you responded immaturely. Guess from whom I get a better "vibe" from?
Now it sounds like I'm being a dick, but I'm making a point. The little things you do give off vibes, which are consciously or subconsciously picked up by women. Take this bitch-out that just occurred. You gave off a bad vibe. I, without knowing you at all, picked up bad vibes, thus registering you lower in my book of respect.
Start recognizing that A.) You fucked up in this thread. Biggie Time. Show some maturity bud. And B.) We can't tell you how to vibe. Vibing is not some cute little routine you can say to get attention or get from actual puas on this site that know their shit. Vibing is an atmosphere. Projecting good vibes consistently does not come from the knowledge of PUAS on this site. It comes from YOU. You must integrate bad-boy qualities into your lifestyle. YOU must learn to create your own vibe, not try and imitate others. Go out. Don't be afraid to fuck up.
[glow=red,2,300]Create your own vibe.[/glow]
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Post by prehistoric on Jul 16, 2010 11:52:30 GMT -5
I was fucking talking about date in the calendar like 1.1.2010, ok ?I'm not going to tell you if i have a date - this is AFC "Hey, guys i just arranged a date, cool,isn't it ?" owl, the fuck i don't care even if you putted me in the lowest place in your book of respect.You are a human,and want it or no there are humans every where
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Post by Grape on Jul 16, 2010 21:17:31 GMT -5
Locking this thread. everyone shut the fuck up. dont bring this shit up in other threads.
Prehistoric, I understand Prodigy was a little forthright in his comment calling you an AFC. Well... I know the truth sucks, but you are an AFC because you asked us such a basic question that only AFCs would ask. Just let it go, no use trying to argue it.
Everyone else, let the specialists deal with people. No reason restating the same thing over again, it will only anger the OP more.
As for advice for your original question.. It's not a science. You should know how to have fun with people, how to get people to laugh, how to get them to be sad, etc. etc. etc. It's a normal thing we all do. Don't overthink it.
and as for the virgin question, tell her the truth. Simple. Be Shameless in who you are by knowing you are always improving. <3
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