Going to a new school, need to reinvent myself

[bravo]

Hey guys, I am transferring schools this year. I am going into my Junior year of high school (I am 16) and I want to reinvent myself so that I get popular and become the player/ladies man. My old school was very big, so there were lots of cliques. But I did not really fit into any, I knew some of the popular kids, but I was no where near being one, in the beginning of the year I was kind of known as the athletic kid that nobody really knew, nor cared about. I didn't talk to many girls at all. But this year, I am going to a new school and I want to reinvent myself into the player type guy that all the girls want. The thing is, I am not very good looking, so I have to really project a very sexy/confident vibe the first day of school, if I want any chance at this, and thats what freaks me out. What do I need to do to achieve this? Should I start hitting on girls the first day of school? Should I just eye every girl that walks bye on the first day of school? I think this would be a little bit weird, and because it is not the real me, it would be hard to hold this attitude for the remaining two years of high school. I already know a few people from that school, but I feel like they wouldnt do much to help me out, and they are not really popular people, just sort of the "cool stoners".


Thanks guys.

[RMO]

So heres the question if anybody is wondering

Jul 31, 2010 21:44:07 GMT -5 bravo said:

What do I need to do to achieve this? Should I start hitting on girls the first day of school? Should I just eye every girl that walks bye on the first day of school?

I'll break this into 4 parts, the first tackling the last 2 question, the second describing general highschool game, the third to counter the first question, and the fourth is going to be my links section.

I want to say before that the most important part is to actually do it, dont become a keyboard jockey, experience and wisdom are key.

1.
Should I start hitting on girls first thing? Depends. If you find this really hot girl go for it, but dont be the guy whose whole shtick is he hits on girls, I'll elaborate more in part 2. Should I just eye every girl that walks bye on the first day of school? Make eye contact with everyone, dont be creepy and 'check her out' but nice comfortable strong gaze.

2. HSPUA, or High School Pick Up Art, is slightly different from your run of the mill PUA. First off venues are different. Were not going to clubs or bars, which makes your dating pool interesting. I recommend reading 'conquer your campus' to really understand cliques. This means that like a workplace, you generally shit where you eat if you try dating at your highschool, I dont dis anyone who does, becuase I myself have done it, but its better to have a good reputation at your own school and go game girls who go to diffrent schools.
HSPUA does not use routines, because routines are fake, we do no peacock like mystery because its like bring a bazooka to a knife fight and just looks fucking weird, we are naturals.

I hate the moniker natural, but it is the most widely acceptable, I prefer Renaissance man, but heres the various attributes of the natural.

a.unaffected by any negative or stressful emotions, doesn't like AMOGs piss him off, doesnt get anxious, when presented with adversity you deal with it like a man without reacting to heavily.
b. BE FUN! constantly add value with jokes, stories, kino, be the fun guy. I really recommend just being high energy, calibrated of course, but be a powerful positive force, if people hang with you they know they are going to have a fun time.
c. dont do AFC mistakes, such a picking your nose, leaning in to sets, treating highschool like your some PUA robot, being stupid in general. The more and more you play the game the more and more the physic power of intuition comes into play and you begin to find the invisible connections between people and what exactly people are feeling and doing, their intentions, when someone says something that disrupts the vibe, ect ect, you will get this power no matter what you do as long as you do something.
d. Be a leader, always lead people, the men, the women, no matter the interaction. Dont be controlling but let it be known you do what you have to, you go where you want to, and good things comes to those who follow. Be respected and loved, read some marcus Aurelius if your having trouble understanding.
e. be willing to try, you must always approach, do something, as soon as you get somewhere, spend a few secs getting familiarized with the environment, find people you like and hang, it is bad if you shyly slink away.
f. have varied interests. I begin with a foundation of health, money, and women, then add hobbies from those areas and whatever your interested in. Read alot, learn alot, apply a lot.
g. Fashion, i only say this becuase fashion is important if you want it to be. You need to be well dressed but fashionable is not necessary, trying something that looks good but not in the norm is Kay. I recommend going to malls and talking to gays, girls, and get on the forum and find alek, as well as my clothes thread, good places to start. Your fashion is all up to you though, experiment, try, adapt.
e. Have friends, I cannot say just how important it is to have a mix of guys and girls who are your friends, nothing more. This is one of the most important ones.

These traits mix together to form your avatar, who you are trying to reinvent yourself to be.

To make the avatar, start with principles, who you are, what you believe in, how you interact, ect ect. The basis, the core of your avatar.
then go into application. How you walk, talk, act. These are the tools you use to apply your principles. Now your exterior. Go see a dermatologist if your skin bothers you, a dentist for teeth, get them whitened at least, get a good haircut, make sure you have a good build, exercise often,a nd fashion. You can have some accessories, but limit them.

Then your put a slight spin on your name, or nickname, or whatever, slap it on the avatar, then in every action become your avatar, change your voice, speech patterns, walk, what you say, to slowly adapt to the new you.

Being a natural just means being able to adapt to any social interaction without advice, tips, or routines, just being able to go out there and pull chicks and make friends. As well as being congruent with your personality, your presence and lifestyle alone should get to the point people are attracted to you, as David D. once said: Attraction is not a choice.

3.
What do I need to do to achieve this?

well go to your school, smile, get the layout, find a few groups, catch some laughs, get connected with some before the day begins, get a feel for the school. Go to class, be a fun, not a smartass, but being good in class. Find people there, make friends, be human. At lunch get some food, plop down near some people, its the first day not going to be a big thing. Find the cliques you want to hang with, if you dont like any of the cliques but like some of the people, find those people and start you own, be a tribal leader motherfucker! Get associated with people. Be the natural. Learn where people hang, hang there, do what you like as far as hobbies, stay good in academia, be the guy people want to hang with.

4. Links/ read

So their are some links I would like to share
The highscool PUA book
www.scribd.com/doc/16294210/High-School-PUAs-eBook-of-20082009

Grapes ebook
www.scribd.com/doc/16294210/High-School-PUAs-eBook-of-20082009

These two have the best stuff of the forum, for the most part, but are really just a collection of articles so they are a little disjointed

my fashion thread
highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=fashion&action=display&thread=3419
this thread is just suggestions, look through it if you really want to.

books
I recommend reading these pua books
conquer your campus
60 year challenge
revelation
badboy lifestyle
double your dating
sex god method

I also recommend before doing any pua to read
THE POWER OF NOW! this book kicks some serious ass.
how to win friends and influence people
any books on NLP or body language
any comedy books, to help with jokes and humor
Ishmael
and the secret


If you or anyone else wants these books just let me know an I'll hook you up.

be varied man, dont have an agenda, and be cool. Thats all I got, other people please add your two cents.

[zegoni]

That was a monster, prodigy! lol
Can't be bothered to read it now, headed for work


Though: You don't hit on girls.

[bravo]

Aug 1, 2010 1:24:47 GMT -5 RMO said:

So heres the question if anybody is wondering

Jul 31, 2010 21:44:07 GMT -5 bravo said:

What do I need to do to achieve this? Should I start hitting on girls the first day of school? Should I just eye every girl that walks bye on the first day of school?

I'll break this into 4 parts, the first tackling the last 2 question, the second describing general highschool game, the third to counter the first question, and the fourth is going to be my links section.

I want to say before that the most important part is to actually do it, dont become a keyboard jockey, experience and wisdom are key.

1.
Should I start hitting on girls first thing? Depends. If you find this really hot girl go for it, but dont be the guy whose whole shtick is he hits on girls, I'll elaborate more in part 2. Should I just eye every girl that walks bye on the first day of school? Make eye contact with everyone, dont be creepy and 'check her out' but nice comfortable strong gaze.

2. HSPUA, or High School Pick Up Art, is slightly different from your run of the mill PUA. First off venues are different. Were not going to clubs or bars, which makes your dating pool interesting. I recommend reading 'conquer your campus' to really understand cliques. This means that like a workplace, you generally shit where you eat if you try dating at your highschool, I dont dis anyone who does, becuase I myself have done it, but its better to have a good reputation at your own school and go game girls who go to diffrent schools.
HSPUA does not use routines, because routines are fake, we do no peacock like mystery because its like bring a bazooka to a knife fight and just looks fucking weird, we are naturals.

I hate the moniker natural, but it is the most widely acceptable, I prefer Renaissance man, but heres the various attributes of the natural.

a.unaffected by any negative or stressful emotions, doesn't like AMOGs piss him off, doesnt get anxious, when presented with adversity you deal with it like a man without reacting to heavily.
b. BE FUN! constantly add value with jokes, stories, kino, be the fun guy. I really recommend just being high energy, calibrated of course, but be a powerful positive force, if people hang with you they know they are going to have a fun time.
c. dont do AFC mistakes, such a picking your nose, leaning in to sets, treating highschool like your some PUA robot, being stupid in general. The more and more you play the game the more and more the physic power of intuition comes into play and you begin to find the invisible connections between people and what exactly people are feeling and doing, their intentions, when someone says something that disrupts the vibe, ect ect, you will get this power no matter what you do as long as you do something.
d. Be a leader, always lead people, the men, the women, no matter the interaction. Dont be controlling but let it be known you do what you have to, you go where you want to, and good things comes to those who follow. Be respected and loved, read some marcus Aurelius if your having trouble understanding.
e. be willing to try, you must always approach, do something, as soon as you get somewhere, spend a few secs getting familiarized with the environment, find people you like and hang, it is bad if you shyly slink away.
f. have varied interests. I begin with a foundation of health, money, and women, then add hobbies from those areas and whatever your interested in. Read alot, learn alot, apply a lot.
g. Fashion, i only say this becuase fashion is important if you want it to be. You need to be well dressed but fashionable is not necessary, trying something that looks good but not in the norm is Kay. I recommend going to malls and talking to gays, girls, and get on the forum and find alek, as well as my clothes thread, good places to start. Your fashion is all up to you though, experiment, try, adapt.
e. Have friends, I cannot say just how important it is to have a mix of guys and girls who are your friends, nothing more. This is one of the most important ones.

These traits mix together to form your avatar, who you are trying to reinvent yourself to be.

To make the avatar, start with principles, who you are, what you believe in, how you interact, ect ect. The basis, the core of your avatar.
then go into application. How you walk, talk, act. These are the tools you use to apply your principles. Now your exterior. Go see a dermatologist if your skin bothers you, a dentist for teeth, get them whitened at least, get a good haircut, make sure you have a good build, exercise often,a nd fashion. You can have some accessories, but limit them.

Then your put a slight spin on your name, or nickname, or whatever, slap it on the avatar, then in every action become your avatar, change your voice, speech patterns, walk, what you say, to slowly adapt to the new you.

Being a natural just means being able to adapt to any social interaction without advice, tips, or routines, just being able to go out there and pull chicks and make friends. As well as being congruent with your personality, your presence and lifestyle alone should get to the point people are attracted to you, as David D. once said: Attraction is not a choice.

3.
What do I need to do to achieve this?

well go to your school, smile, get the layout, find a few groups, catch some laughs, get connected with some before the day begins, get a feel for the school. Go to class, be a fun, not a smartass, but being good in class. Find people there, make friends, be human. At lunch get some food, plop down near some people, its the first day not going to be a big thing. Find the cliques you want to hang with, if you dont like any of the cliques but like some of the people, find those people and start you own, be a tribal leader motherfucker! Get associated with people. Be the natural. Learn where people hang, hang there, do what you like as far as hobbies, stay good in academia, be the guy people want to hang with.

4. Links/ read

So their are some links I would like to share
The highscool PUA book
www.scribd.com/doc/16294210/High-School-PUAs-eBook-of-20082009

Grapes ebook
www.scribd.com/doc/16294210/High-School-PUAs-eBook-of-20082009

These two have the best stuff of the forum, for the most part, but are really just a collection of articles so they are a little disjointed

my fashion thread
highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=fashion&action=display&thread=3419
this thread is just suggestions, look through it if you really want to.

books
I recommend reading these pua books
conquer your campus
60 year challenge
revelation
badboy lifestyle
double your dating
sex god method

I also recommend before doing any pua to read
THE POWER OF NOW! this book kicks some serious ass.
how to win friends and influence people
any books on NLP or body language
any comedy books, to help with jokes and humor
Ishmael
and the secret


If you or anyone else wants these books just let me know an I'll hook you up.

be varied man, dont have an agenda, and be cool. Thats all I got, other people please add your two cents.

Wow man, thanks so much bro, this really lays it out for me. have all the books you listed, because I went through this time period where I just downloaded a bunch of books, so yea I will start looking at the Power of now, because I have not tried that and it looks useful.

[RMO]

but remember experience is key, more then anything else

[perceverance]

i <3 your posts prod. haha

[indianprince]

To add to what Prodigy said, look up The Blueprint Decoded and get the video. It really caused a shift in my mindset about pretty much everything. I believe your school will probably start in early September so you still have plenty of time to watch it.

Btw, I'm the same boat as you. I'm moving to a new school in September.