Should I game this girl now, or wait until school?

[bravo]

I have heard of the bf destroyer. I might or might not give it a try, because this girl is not a 10, so I dont think I want her that bad. But if I do, could you give me an example of a really good effective boyfriend destroyer without coming off as needy or creepy?

[RMO]

it is not as some would imagine a routine, it is a style.

Girls are highly emotional and pick up subconscious ques better then guys, they dont know what to do with them anymore then guys do, if you try ANY boyfriend destroyer shes going to catch on. Just be unreactive to him, and continue to game her.

I have pulled the gambit a few times, and stolen girls from boyfriends before, but whenever I would go into the interaction with the intent of boyfriend destrutction, an agenda, I was fucked, I lost my edge, she caught on, and the creepy vibe floated on in.

[zegoni]

The "peeeeeerfect boyfriend" is some kind of bf destroyer. It's not as usual one, but it gives the same message. She'll think it over, and realize he's not as great as she initially thought, and eventually seek for something better -> You.


And yeah, definitely prodigy. The second you're outcome dependant is the second you'll start shooting at your feet; feels cool, but really dumb.

[bravo]

k, well she told me she stayed home all day today, and I was gonna be like "doesnt ur boyfriend take you out?" but u guys told me not to mention him so I strayed away from that. Gonna ask her to hang out tomorrow. The only thing left now is the kiss close, going into a kiss a girl that has a boyfriend sounds terrifying to me. But there is no other way to close if I want this girl, because to her it will feel like "it just happened" But idk if a kiss close is even possible because im in high school, and i dont have a car, so we're just gonna walk around our neigborhood and talk for a little. Dont see how I can kiss close a girl that has a boyfriend, and in that type of "hang out" setting.

[RMO]

OVERTHINKING IT!

just go with it, if you kiss, it will be natural, dont let thoughts of some boyfriend dissuade you, be the guy that kisses, or better yet, the guy that denies girls from kissing him.

it is really about going with it, rather then micromanaging every little snippet of the interaction.

[zegoni]

True.

All girls are sluts if the right guy comes around.

Be that right guy.

[bravo]

K well after all the hard work guys I think I might have lost her. I think it all came down to me being too cocky/arrogant, and starting to become predictable. After several texts, I kept teasing and she liked it, but then it got to a point where I did it so much that she was like this guy is a "dick" and never lets me win. I think I did too much pushing and not enough pulling, because after one text when I told her "sorry you were close, but not yet." She replied "sorry, im falling asleep, ill talk to you later." I did not reply to that but i knew it was because I should have pulled on that one and let her win. The next day I texted her and said "hey lets hang out" she replied "cant sorry, im in trouble" After that I was like, I fucked up. Not enough pulling. I say for ever 5 or 6 pushes (teases, negs, disqualifiers) I did maybe one pull (very slight compliment).

[Ari Gold]

You're just being a fucking cock.
2 pushes, 1 full pull.
"You're gay:p"
"You're such a dork:p"
"You're so cuteee though, so...ahaha"

BOOM repeat. Girls will not like you if you are just a massive penis to them with the occasional sorta compliment.

[RMO]

Sweet baby jesus in a birchbark canoe thats really being a dick. Its supposed to be playful. I like to use self-deprecation every now and again in order to bring that into prospective.

I completely agree with Ari Gold, also remember online and text game playful/sarcasm never really translate, and overly using emoticons in order to get it across is annoying, there should be a good balance.

[bravo]

Yea guys, well she texted back. Time to reframe and start being 'nicer'

[zegoni]

I had a problem once being a real dick to girls. Like, really. They liked it, but not enough to actually get pulled home.
So instead of being a complete bitch, I just started to let her qualify herself all the time. "Oh, so you're the nice girl. Definitely not the dirty type"
- "blablabla, I'm dirty! trust me!"
So when the virgins I was talking to started to say they were dirty too, I did another thing... Just think of them as princesses. Give them a little, but not alot. Always think she's got enough cute guys in her life. You do not want to be the cute one. You want to be the sexy motherfucker.