bravo
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Post by bravo on Aug 8, 2010 21:12:36 GMT -5
Hey guys, I absolutely cant get a girlfriend and right now I am going into the 11th grade and the last time I had a girlfriend was in like 4th grade, and I am pretty sure that does not count. I think it is because my standards are too high but I could be wrong. I am attracted to white girls and have been since the 9th grade. I have heard many foreign girls have had crushes on me, but mostly the ugly mexican girls and the ugly arab girls. I am not racist, and I respect all cultures. But why is it that I cant get a girlfriend that I am attracted to first, whereas if I wanted a girlfriend now I would have to stick with the only girl that likes me right now, who is an ugly guatemalan girl. Everytime I try to run my game on a girl I like, there is a little bit of initial attraction, but it does not go anywhere. Are my standards too high because it seems the only girls that are attracted to me are the ugly ones. I mean I am not the best looking guy (infact I dont think I'm good looking at all) but I am tall and athletic so I dont see why I cant get a pretty girlfriend. Should I just settle with the ugly foreign girls who like me for now? I dont want to lol, but nothing else is working.
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Shampoo
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Post by Shampoo on Aug 8, 2010 21:21:13 GMT -5
Um im not a pro at this stuff but listen to what you just said- Ugly girls like you but YOU dont like Girls YOU like arent attracted to you It seems your putting the pussy on the pedestal, your trying too hard to get the hot girls. Treat all girls as if their ugly
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anselgrey23
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Post by anselgrey23 on Aug 9, 2010 0:38:31 GMT -5
I would suggest you to First of all change your attitude dude Means stop being a downer if you act like this and act depressed that is also a big turn off I mean not to be mean but come on start caring about someone else and yeah being shallow to an extent is ok but no one is perfect you going to have to talk to someone. Hope this will be helpful for you.
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RedDog
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Post by RedDog on Aug 9, 2010 2:20:30 GMT -5
I used this have this problem back in the day, I know you probably want to just finally have a gf, but don't sell yourself short. Obviously it's easier said than done(or it was for me), but, Just be social and fun, be the guy that makes those hotter white girls laugh( ), be the life of the party, etc. Mindset wise, you want to just have fun for yourself, not for the sake of getting a girlfriend. Have fun, go wild, Don't be afraid to throw yourself out there, girls like confidence alot. Don't be too mad at yourself if one night goes wrong, a big key of learning to be more natural is catching and fixing mistakes. No one said it was an easy process, if it was, you probably wouldn't be on here. But you(and all other guys) have the tools to succeed with girls. That "elusive" white girl will be yours if you put in the effort.
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