Post by Ari Gold on Aug 9, 2010 10:21:10 GMT -5
Something that's bothered me ever since I got into this seduction shit is the lack of importance on the use of online mediums. Facebook, AOL, texting, etc. This is another thing that separates an AFC from a PUA; the use of a quality medium to further enhance his game.
Think of it this way; the most dominant animal in the jungle will always adapt to his environment. Animals have, will, and will continue to adapt to their environment in order to survive. This concept is applicable to the Seduction Community, too. The old style of "Facebook sucks! Texting is pointless! E-mails are lame!" is done. Texting, Facebook, etc are KING in 2010. ESPECIALLY in High School, and ESPECIALLY with women.
Did you ever notice HOW MANY FUCKING GIRLS ARE ON FACEBOOK ALL THE FUCKING TIME? Did you ever consider that they place a heavy importance on this medium? And YOU AREN'T USING AND ABUSING THIS MEDIUM? What the fuck kind of Pickup Artist, Alpha Male, lady's man are you? It's a very simple concept; use what gets the job done best.
Also consider this factor; in High School, until you're a Junior usually, you have no access to a car. Therefore, unless your parents will drive you on a whim to pick up a girl, then you're fucked out of a ride. WE ARE NOT ADULTS. WE CANNOT PICKUP GIRLS AFTER WORK AND TAKE THEM PLACES. But is it a problem? HELL NO. As PUAs we adapt to our environment.
Can't meet the girl in person? Text her. IM her. Write on her fucking wall for all I care. CONTACT IS KEY. Building rapport, and a history is the absolute key to building a RELATIONSHIP. You don't need a history, or hell, even a high level of rapport to hook up with a girl. Hook-ups and one-night stands are based on a simple pickup. This is more. This is building relationships with women.
Please Note: You are not pickup artists in the traditional sense of the word. We do not go to clubs and sarge. We do not do cold approaches during the day. We flirt with the girls we know, meet more, and work to either have a "thing", or to have a legitimate relationship. I don't know anyone who's successful enough with women, save a few naturals, to be single, and to hookup with random girls, AND DON'T EVER TRY, OR DO TAKE IT FARTHER.
But it's a simple concept, again. You become attached to people when you spend time with them. That's why the concept of Fuck Buddies doesn't always work. One person becomes attached and the other doesn't.
SO BACK TO THE TOPIC. Use your fucking Facebook, your cell phone, e-mail a bitch, IM her, fucking Tweet her for all I fucking care. USE YOUR FUCKING MEDIUMS OR YOU WILL BE LESS SUCCESSFUL.
JOIN or DIE.
ADAPT to your ENVIRONMENT.
LOOK at all these FUCKING FRs FROM GODDAMN FACEBOOK. Would there be SO MANY if it didn't work?
Sure I'm slightly angry, but you will all get the point if you don't do this already.
And for all you non-naturals, EVERY SINGLE GUY I KNOW WHO IS THE LEAST BIT SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN HAS AN ONLINE GAME ASPECT.
Think of it this way; the most dominant animal in the jungle will always adapt to his environment. Animals have, will, and will continue to adapt to their environment in order to survive. This concept is applicable to the Seduction Community, too. The old style of "Facebook sucks! Texting is pointless! E-mails are lame!" is done. Texting, Facebook, etc are KING in 2010. ESPECIALLY in High School, and ESPECIALLY with women.
Did you ever notice HOW MANY FUCKING GIRLS ARE ON FACEBOOK ALL THE FUCKING TIME? Did you ever consider that they place a heavy importance on this medium? And YOU AREN'T USING AND ABUSING THIS MEDIUM? What the fuck kind of Pickup Artist, Alpha Male, lady's man are you? It's a very simple concept; use what gets the job done best.
Also consider this factor; in High School, until you're a Junior usually, you have no access to a car. Therefore, unless your parents will drive you on a whim to pick up a girl, then you're fucked out of a ride. WE ARE NOT ADULTS. WE CANNOT PICKUP GIRLS AFTER WORK AND TAKE THEM PLACES. But is it a problem? HELL NO. As PUAs we adapt to our environment.
Can't meet the girl in person? Text her. IM her. Write on her fucking wall for all I care. CONTACT IS KEY. Building rapport, and a history is the absolute key to building a RELATIONSHIP. You don't need a history, or hell, even a high level of rapport to hook up with a girl. Hook-ups and one-night stands are based on a simple pickup. This is more. This is building relationships with women.
Please Note: You are not pickup artists in the traditional sense of the word. We do not go to clubs and sarge. We do not do cold approaches during the day. We flirt with the girls we know, meet more, and work to either have a "thing", or to have a legitimate relationship. I don't know anyone who's successful enough with women, save a few naturals, to be single, and to hookup with random girls, AND DON'T EVER TRY, OR DO TAKE IT FARTHER.
But it's a simple concept, again. You become attached to people when you spend time with them. That's why the concept of Fuck Buddies doesn't always work. One person becomes attached and the other doesn't.
SO BACK TO THE TOPIC. Use your fucking Facebook, your cell phone, e-mail a bitch, IM her, fucking Tweet her for all I fucking care. USE YOUR FUCKING MEDIUMS OR YOU WILL BE LESS SUCCESSFUL.
JOIN or DIE.
ADAPT to your ENVIRONMENT.
LOOK at all these FUCKING FRs FROM GODDAMN FACEBOOK. Would there be SO MANY if it didn't work?
Sure I'm slightly angry, but you will all get the point if you don't do this already.
And for all you non-naturals, EVERY SINGLE GUY I KNOW WHO IS THE LEAST BIT SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN HAS AN ONLINE GAME ASPECT.