bravo
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Post by bravo on Aug 23, 2010 21:29:07 GMT -5
Hey guys, I have been texting this girl that has a boyfriend for a couple weeks now, she is giving me some solid IOI's and I can tell there is attraction, I can tell this girl wants me at some points when we text. But whenever I try and escalate and be sexual, she literally changes the subject. Like the other night she texts me and asks me what I am doing, I said watching a soccer match and I ask her what she is doing, she says she is laying down and trying to get sleep but she cant. I replied saying she cant because she is thinking about me. She then replied to me playfully saying "in my dreams romeo" then I said "haha you know its true sweetheart" then she says "lol back to soccer do you actually like that stuff" then we proceded to flirt from there. Solid IOI's, obvious attraction and everything, but whenever I try and sexually escalate or sexually tease, she immediately changes the subject. We have only been texting because every time I try and initiate a "hang out" she cha nges the subject and one time she told me she could not hangout because she was in trouble. Why does she change the subject when I escalate and try to hang ou even though there is massive attraction, role play, teasing etc. Is this because she has a boyfriend? Believe me, I am not friend zoned. What is wrong with this girl? I know I am better than her boyfriend.
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friedice
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Post by friedice on Aug 23, 2010 21:45:42 GMT -5
when you escalate don't stop fool those are tests she doesn't want to let u escalate because she doesn't wanna seem like a slut. You as a man must fight through her bitchshield if u want the girl when ever the subject changes you change it BACK to what you want to talk about. so if you want to talk about sex you talk about sexy.lead the escalation right now she's controlling your attempts
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bravo
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Post by bravo on Aug 23, 2010 22:30:17 GMT -5
Believe me I tried doing that, but every time I push through she tries to change the subject even more. Also, what will happen if I eventually just push through, will she just accept it or do I just keep pushing, I'm afraid I'll come off as creepy if I do this, this girl is really funny, playful, and cute, I dont wanna lose her. The other night we were texting and I just flat out gave up because she kept changing the subject yet still throwing IOI'S, I just said flat out to her, "goodnite, I gotta go. I want at least a make out from this girl, but she makes excuses to not hang out, yet still throws IOI's, maybe this girl is playing me and is using me just for fun? But she doesn't seem like that type of girl.
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zegoni
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Post by zegoni on Aug 24, 2010 15:53:02 GMT -5
If she changes subject, neg her. SHE's taking the lead, and she shouldn't (unless you allow her - which you don't).
"soccer's cool, but have you never learned to answer a question?"
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