Post by bravo on Aug 24, 2010 17:19:24 GMT -5
Hey guys, I have a big problem. I have this problem where my game is very strong when I meet a girl online, or if I text a girl that I think is hot. My text game is VERY strong, and so is my online game. Like I'll be texting a girl I like and I am so good at cocky/funny when it comes to texting , that I can tell the girl WANTS me. I can tell through the texting /chat vibe that the girl thinks I am a sexy motherfucker. But when I meet the girl in person, to hang out or whatever, I am the most mundane, boring, weirdest chode this girl has ever met. I mean sometimes my text game is so strong and my face to face game is so bad that the girl will look at me in a "WTF happened to the sexy guy face" I feel that my text game is so strong that this girl must be expecting a lot out of me, actually not even, I am just not a fun person when it comes to hanging out with girls, I've tried talking less, and listening more, but that isn't doing me much. I feel like the girls that I text or call are dissappointed when they meet me because they thought the guy they were texting really was cocky and funny, I just cant seem to think straight when I am with a girl, I just simply dont know how to be FUN around girls as a friend, because I am afraid that if I am FUN around girls as friends, they will think I am hitting on them because I am teasing them etc. How can I make my text game congruent with my face to face (hanging out) game?
