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Post by bravo on Aug 27, 2010 17:42:33 GMT -5
Hey guys, I see guys at those high school teen clubs sometimes making out with girls while on the dance floor. I have observed what they do, they kind of turn the girl around after some dirty dancing (grinding) and slow dance a little and then they just start making out, I dont know how they do it though. Whenever I dance with a girl, we are JUST dancing, no vibe, how do I create a sexual vibe while dancing, I have tried sexual kino techniques, neck kissing etc. but I have had no success making out with chicks doing this. And no, I dont want to learn how to isolate and make out, there is lots of info on that, I want to learn how those studs make out with girls on the dance floor, do they just go in and try doing it while dancing? I dont want to get slapped in front of my friends trying this. Last time I went I tried sexual escalation with these girls (neck kissing, hip rubbing, tickling her neck with nose etc.) usually I turn them around and then nothing, we just stop dancing after that. Because I know they are not expecting a kiss, I dont wanna go in and scare the shit out of them and get slapped in front of hundreds of people.
Thanks.
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Post by Eastcoast on Aug 28, 2010 15:09:39 GMT -5
Well first of all dude its not complicated at alll so dont worry about it once you get the opportunity. The first thing you have to do is escalate the dance, you tried some of the sexual escalation things but your missing out on the easier stuff. What you can do to start out is speed up your pace/energy and bring her along using your hands on her hips. You dont nessarily have to be the one leading but you have to be right on with her, dont be sloppy and slow. She doesnt wanna grind on a wall. If you pick up the energy for a while you can then judge her if she is responding well(keeps up the pace).
After you make it a bit more spicy with the pace then you can start to let your hands wander. The more she allows the more you take. You have to be feeling the vibe at this point though because if you go roaming and shes not down then its not good. I find that once your hands are roaming it really gets them going reaaaally well.
As for the kiss, once you can feel the vibe out and shes ready to be kissed i like to just lean over the shoulder and kiss her on the cheek. About half the time reaching in like that i find the girl will just turn her head towards you and bam you got the kiss. Then once you somewhat locked you can spin her around to facing her while your kissing her. I guess it sounds kinda complicated but once you go in most of the time if the vibe is good your golden.
The key is amping up the vibe and feeling out where your at. This is mostly judgment. You were trying to amp it up but in kinda different ways. I think those techniques work better on older girls, like at clubs.But most teenagers its fine to be more crude and less sensual.
Good luck dude, and above everything it takes practice. To be honest after the first few your gonna know exactly how to do it.
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zegoni
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Post by zegoni on Aug 28, 2010 19:09:17 GMT -5
Eastcoast: Building up massive sexual tension isn't only for older people. It's incredible how horny girls can get from it. Other than that, you're right.
Bravo, you don't seem smooth at all. The way I read it, what's going on in your mind is like "k now i try xxxx's kiss close.. damn, fail. so now I try xxxxxxxxx's kiss close, damn fail. sso now, i..." etc. If you're thinking like a robot, you'll look like one. If it feels natural to kiss her, do it!
You aren't going to get slapped. Hell, when I practiced <10 sec makeouts, I never got slapped.
If you wanna use a kiss close routine, stick to one. My favorite is to take her hand, lift it over her head and spin her disney-style 360 degrees. 99% of the time she'll lean back a little, and that's when you kiss her.
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