I know dont know to make friends!

[bravo]

The only time I can ever make a friend is IF im needy. Which hurts me later in our friendship because I become low value in their eyes. I hate being needy, but I think its the only way I can make friends because I am never invited out or noticed without being needy. I am a fairly social, good looking guy, but I have NO friends! I am at university and whenever I see groups going out for lunch together, I always have to act needy and follow them around or ask them if I can come with, which makes me feel more needy. People never invite me out, or try to initiate a friendship. I've had this problem since high school, and I never really learned the steps to making a friend and actually hanging out with them. The only time I ever made a social circle was when I invited myself into one by being extremely needy and asking if I could come with them wherever they went. Am I the only person in this world that doesnt know how to make a friend without forcing myself on them and being needy? When I dont act needy for several months I am lonely, but when I do act needy, I make a few friends, but they all AMOG me and think I am low value because I lack a social circle and ask if I can hang out with them. How do I stop neediness, yet still have lots of friends to hang out with?

[Nick]

It's not necessarily needy. You gotta do what you gotta do. Just start talking to people whenever you can, then whenever they do something just ask to come with. They will invite you back but you HAVE TO BE FUN. Don't be a wallflower boring kid when you're out with them. Be fun and be outgoing.