Homecoming

[Nick]

I know there has been plenty of posts about this but none of them say anything about the asking part. Some guys ask in a really extravagant way and others just ask.

This seems like it should be a pretty big deal. I just met this really cool chick and I want to ask her to homecoming but I don't feel like just asking is a great idea. What are some good ideas for asking a girl to homecoming?

[RMO]

it depends on just how much value you assign to the event.

I myself don't give two shits about homecoming and even though I will go, if I ask somebody out, its as natural as breathing.

the reason none of them say anything on the asking part is because is assumed you would just simply ask her, no extravagance, no canned material, it is just you displaying an interest to hang with her at some stupid school event.

I am curious, why would it not be a great idea just to ask the girl? Is she the one, do you need to sweep her off her feet?

[Nick]

What you said does make sense. I guess if I just don't make a big deal out of it than it's not a big deal... It's just that I FEEL like I should do something extravagant. Could just be my worried side. I've been rather nervous lately. I hardly even have an appetite.

I thought it might be a good idea because it's sort of a like a DHV. As long as it's showy and not so much costly. It just seems that everyone at my school is making a big deal out of Homecoming. So... maybe I shouldn't. It would make it much easier.

[RMO]

no offense but just put a whole lot less thinking into the deal. Thinking to much is usually a bad idea when it comes to interacting with people, I'm not saying go full instinct, but with a little knowledge and a little experience your intuition will show you just how powerful your subconscious is. Dont think, just do.

[Shampoo]

I dont know if this answers your question, Im not trying to brag but I get some ASS in dances if you know what I mean

In Homecoming I see 3 ways you can approach things.

1. Homecoming King depending on your grade. You can dance with the homecoming queen so its pretty much premade, or atleast at my school.

2. You can go aggressive, this is what I tend to do. You dont ask any girls to the homecoming and the whole place is for you to enjoy in a way. Its a big risk big reward type of thing. You can walk outta there literally fucking a girl (In my school) or walk away disappointed only dancing with a few girls or ugly ones. Its a great way to meet new people haha

3. Finally you can go conservative. You ask a girl to Homecoming. How? Just ask her hey, you wanna be my dance partner at homecoming. Dont make it awkward or harder than it is

I guess thats the basic outline of what I wanna say, hope it helped!