therealdeal956
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Post by therealdeal956 on Sept 11, 2010 13:03:09 GMT -5
so, theres this chick that i have hooked up with a couple times. The thing is I do actually want a relationship with her. She knows that i legit like her, and when i asked her how she felt bout me she says "i have a ton of fun with you and love being around you, but idk if i like you more then a friend or not" what do you guys think?
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Sept 11, 2010 20:39:56 GMT -5
the thing is that you are thinking this too much, don't hang on every word
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Gumby
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Post by Gumby on Sept 11, 2010 21:00:17 GMT -5
To me I think you just got the LJBF speech bro. I think she was just sugar coating it a little more.
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therealdeal956
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Post by therealdeal956 on Sept 12, 2010 9:35:53 GMT -5
LJBF but still hook up? lol. so confusing
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Sept 12, 2010 10:38:35 GMT -5
that fucking sucks, the lets just be friends speech went unopposed, stop thinking and go for the gold, remember even though shes said this one thing, girls are emotional creatures, you can change her opinion in a heart beat.
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Sept 12, 2010 13:39:41 GMT -5
that fucking sucks, the lets just be friends speech went unopposed, stop thinking and go for the gold, remember even though shes said this one thing, girls are emotional creatures, you can change her opinion in a heart beat. exactly. that's why we practice the ghost. people say things they don't mean or they do it to protect their ego. |
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therealdeal956
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Post by therealdeal956 on Sept 12, 2010 14:17:24 GMT -5
so what are you guys thinking i should do?
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friedice
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Post by friedice on Sept 12, 2010 15:07:36 GMT -5
ever heard of pre-selection? no! well its when women float to you because they see you with other women. amazing huh. well here is what you need to do, make sure she sees other girls having fun with you so subconsiously it looks as though you are attractive. another way to mess her up n burst out of the friend zone is by seriously breaking rapport i mean hard negs, teasing etc. she is obviously way to comfortable with you so tease her a bit make fun of her a lil and you'll be on your way. MAKE SURE YOU STILL HOOK UP don't crush her feelings for you if any
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therealdeal956
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Post by therealdeal956 on Sept 13, 2010 21:14:10 GMT -5
yea you guys were pretty much right, she didnt want anything more then to hookup. i screwed up big time on this one. like majorly
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extra
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Post by extra on Sept 14, 2010 17:48:01 GMT -5
Ignore her for a while, focus on other stuff and chicks. Be friendly, but don't initate stuff. You can stop after some time or when she starts wanting you enough.
If a girl is on the fence or starting to push me away, this always seems to work. Plus, i figure it's the right thing to do; if she isn't feeling it, i'm not gonna push it on her. I had an ex/fb saying to me she couldn't take us seeing eachother anymore, at the time the feeling was mutual so i responded as such. I told her that serious stuff between us probably wasn't gonna work out. And suddenly she was all about trying to keep me
Flip the 'frame' on her, i guess.
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