PARTAYINGGG

[perceverance]

would not being able to party hurt your game alot? just a random question for you guys.

[friedice]

yes

[zegoni]

Yeah, I never work well while alcohol is absent.

[perceverance]

fuck me. my parents are strict on partying.

[friedice]

then sneak out dumbo

[extra]

Yeah

It won't stop you though. I have a friend who is a straight P I M P and doesn't party. But I have lots more friends who party and get girls. Party game is EZ and fun too

Also, if you're that puss that mommy said can't go out, that can hurt your game. And... ok your parents are strict about partying, but no one's partying in high school according to what they tell their parents

[Alek]

have a talk with your parents, honestly. Parents can be such an obstacle for human recreation.

show them that you are responsible, and want to get the most out of life.

[perceverance]

i've had talks with them, they have told me that they have to know the house where the party is going to be, they will drive me there and pick me up at around 12:30 at the latest. how am i supposed to get away with drinking if they are picking me up? i dont know if they are being too strict. they just wont understand :\

They also know that there is always going to be drugs and alcohol at partys which makes convincing them even harder.

[hoops45]

if your friend is going to the party you can tell them its at his house. they drop you there then your friend can take you to the party. but then you'd have to leave the party early so you'd be there for them to pick you up and you wouldnt be able to drink.
you could sneak out.
you could just not listen to your parents but that depends on what they do to punish you. if the punishment isnt worth it then its a bad idea.
you could say your just sleeping over at a friends house. then they won't pick u up till morning.
there's should be some way around it if you just think about it for a while

[Alek]

ok put it this way. you cannot protect me from my self. What ever you try to restrict me on, i will just do when i leave your house, and id only be missing out on my teenage years which should be filled with excitement and joy, and having a family that is there, but embraces me on my quest for self fulfillment.

There is no difference between coming home at 12:30, or 3 in the morning. As long as I am safe - and responsible (which I am). If you don't want me driving with friends, because of them being drunk or irresponsible - that can be more understandable, but I do not want you driving me and picking me up....how am i going to interact with women in that frame. You are not raising me to be a man, and to be independent on myself, all you are doing is just postponing my growth as an individual, and therefore essentially having it so I will learn my own independence outside of the household...which could be very dangerous because I wouldn't then have a safety net (you guys).

So I understand that you are trying to look after my best interest, but you are just going about it in a wrong way. Understand that I will be responsible at all times, and my phone is always next to me. Just do your part, and let me grow myself and just be there to support me - as you should be.

thats what id say.

[zegoni]

Alek - every mom's dream.

[perceverance]

ill see what i can do and ill try to mention some of the stuff you are saying Alek. Its ridiculous because they wont even let me sleep over at any friends house unless they know the parents of my friends and i cannot introduce them to every single one of my friends' parents.

[themachine]

Having never being invited to one hurt your game a lot?

[slyman]

^ its more of a result of having no social proof/good friends who invite you to parties. not going doesn't "hurt" your game, but it takes away some incredible opportunities as well as great fun. dont be a loser, make friends, then rage. naturally, you'll build an attractive livestyle.